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[seido_valca]

I've seem too many bashing/pointing fingers/blaming/spiking recently within the people of Ircfiesta family, and fairly enough I am disappointed at it.

Sure it's not a bad thing to rant, talk your feelings out... but by doing so you are affecting the listener point of view regarding that person and (out of no reason for that listener) starting to

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[sringangel]

*huggies uncle raz*
T_T

[honou_no_izumi]

*patpats*

not sure on which issue you were touching on... to me, on some issue, I did sort of discuss it with the others. Not as far as getting physical or abusing to the point of really hurting someone...

... or there's something again that I missed?

[seido_valca]

All of the issue, does discussing it with others bring something positive or was it merely a bashing session for you to express your hate out?

Don't you think that it's something like backstabbing? you are still talking bad things about your friend/family no?

[honou_no_izumi]

Not much backstabbing tho but just talked about it... because we ended up talking about something else later.

It's like me telling tsu about my other sis being too rough with her daughter and how she almost impale me with the sharp end of a scissor.

Like yesterday... there's not much of a bashing session, more like talking about what happened. Cos not everyone was in channel when such things happened.

[mistressnaoko]

*Hugs* Gomen. ><"

[seido_valca]

Tell that to Rylands`

[silvennia]

*hugs*

I talk...I rant...I just release. But I rarely backstab people...I think. Like you, I prefer to keep it to myself than to damage others. Though sometimes I feel I talk too much >___<

Anyways, you're right about that, and I think I more or less know what you meant, though it may not be the correct issue
*hugs her kor kor*

[seido_valca]

It's not one issue, it's multiple issue.

Why do people kept thinking I am pointing to one issue?

You can rant, but keep the name of the person out of it? and rant to people who dont know that person so that you wont change others opinion of him? Would that be better?

[silvennia]

ah okay..cause I tune out a lot and will always be the last to know. Either way, I never disclose names in my rants...did I? *reminds herself to check later* and yes, i normally do what you just mentioned above...

[seido_valca]

Alright, keep it up... and remember spread the love and not the hate!

[may_billy]

Forgive me,Raz papa,for I also rant.T___T

[seido_valca]

*pat and hugs* spread the love more and less of the hate