Mate, never feel bad or ashamed to vent/rant or ask for help or advice - everyone needs to unload their fears and anger at some point in their lives, no one is that perfect. No one can bottle this kind of thing up for ever, believe me... I've tried. Most people go through what you are going through at some point, so you are not alone.
I don't think you are a failure and I don't think you are pathetic, I see someone confused and trying to find some sense and meaning in life, just like we all are.
Allow yourself some time to be yourself - try not to feel pressured into trying to be something different - I know how difficult this can be, but you need to. Why the need to try and impress people?? (Rhetorical question) - start with impressing yourself before worrying about impressing others
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Brett, we know each other for quite some time now. And I always enjoy our talks. And believe me you are NOT a failure or what ever!
I don't want to sound like I know everything, but I am going to try and give some advice.
I totally agree with DIC. You need to work on your self first. That's very important. If you are not happy with yourself, it shows. I know you and your mom are close, have a talk with her.
Getting anger released is good. I always go and sport (squash or run for example). You like to dance... so use that as a way to vent.
If you need me, just contact me and I'll do my outmost best to help, at least I'll listen to you.
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Mate, never feel bad or ashamed to vent/rant or ask for help or advice - everyone needs to unload their fears and anger at some point in their lives, no one is that perfect. No one can bottle this kind of thing up for ever, believe me... I've tried. Most people go through what you are going through at some point, so you are not alone.
I don't think you are a failure and I don't think you are pathetic, I see someone confused and trying to find some sense and meaning in life, just like we all are.
Allow yourself some time to be yourself - try not to feel pressured into trying to be something different - I know how difficult this can be, but you need to. Why the need to try and impress people?? (Rhetorical question) - start with impressing yourself before worrying about impressing others ( ... )
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Brett, we know each other for quite some time now. And I always enjoy our talks. And believe me you are NOT a failure or what ever!
I don't want to sound like I know everything, but I am going to try and give some advice.
I totally agree with DIC. You need to work on your self first. That's very important. If you are not happy with yourself, it shows. I know you and your mom are close, have a talk with her.
Getting anger released is good. I always go and sport (squash or run for example). You like to dance... so use that as a way to vent.
If you need me, just contact me and I'll do my outmost best to help, at least I'll listen to you.
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