Time to give up on this year as well

[semebay]

My grandfather died last night.

That's the short version. A slight longer, but still short, version would be "My grandfather died last night and our life is probably going to go to hell."

I want to keep this... Somewhat short, because it's so fucked up and I want to post a few more things tonight. But the background information is that last Wednesday

Comments

[isoyamanami]

It is a very hard situation, I wish you to overcame the mourning, your family to get better and the feud can finish as soon as possible. *hugs*

Thanks for talking, your Grampie seemed to being an awesome person by your description, I hope you will recount even some positive episode of his life once you will feel better...

[hoshiko_2000]

I'm sorry for your loss. My own Grandma is currently in a coma following a massive stroke a couple of days ago so I can understand something of what you are going through :/.

[chiisana00]

Oh... I'm sorry to hear all these. People usually say this, I don't know whether they meant it or not, but I really really _really_ do hope things will work out for you.

May not be the best person to talk to, but the door is open!

[jazzchyk]

There are no words that I could say that would help to ease anything that you're going through right now.
I understand not wanting to talk to your grandmother. I'd just say limit contact to whenever it cannot be avoided without a major stink. It's the best way to survive. Just don't give up on this year entirely. It's too early.

I hope that there will be some comfort for you and those who are grieving at this time. Stay strong.

[nashi_kanata]

I'm sorry for your loss. It's a shitty start of the year but we never know what happens in the future. It might get better or it might not.

Your grandma is certainly something. I can't imagine being nice to such a person after knowing what you know so I guess instead of being 'nice'/'kind' just treat her with however little respect she deserves?