Nothing Especially Special...
the Helper
Test finished!
you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me
- Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
- Share fun times with me.
- Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
- Let me know that I am important and special to you.
- Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.
- Reassure me that I am intersting to you.
- Reassure me often that you love me.
- Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.
In Intimate Relationships
What I Like About Being a Two
- being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
- knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
- being generous, caring, and warm
- being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
- being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor
What's Hard About Being a Two
- not being able to say no
- having low self-esteem
- feeling drained from overdoing for others
- not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
- criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
- being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them
- working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings
Twos as Children Often
- are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism
- try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
- are outwardly compliant
- are popular or try to be popular with other children
- act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention
- are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Twos)
Twos as Parents
- are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)
- are often playful with their children
- wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"
- can become fiercely protective
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele
The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages
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You chose CX
Would you rather have chosen:
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You scored higher than 0% on ABC
You scored higher than 15% on XYZ
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Deific Orbisian
You scored 37% Tradition and 5% Mundanity!
You have no trouble with the mystical and metaphysical content of the Orbisian Cosmology, but you might have a few points at which you differ with the exact manner in which they are presented. Still, you are very compatible with Orbisian thought and I would recommend that you contact me (orbisian-at-jules-dot-org) and ask to be put on the mailing list for when the book on The Orbisian Cosmology and Ethos is complete! Or, just live, knowing that somewhere out there, there is a different way of seeing the Cosmos that reinforces yours more than disagrees.
My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
You scored higher than 62% on Tradition
You scored higher than 0% on Mundanity
Link: The How Orbisian Are You? Test written by elvenspell on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test