Comments | senza_radici: my thoughts on ms.molly's post....

bella_rivolta in senza_radici

my thoughts on ms.molly's post....

Apr 26, 2006 03:59

while i seriously doubt that melanie (my therapist) would ever attempt physical touch with me (she's way too new at this for that), there are times when i want her to, and know that i could never ask ( Read more... )

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arbus April 26 2006, 15:00:16 UTC

for some reason, im so astounded that other people feel the way i do. i have a lot of these same feelings, i cant believe someone else does too, ive felt so alone and like such a freak for so long.

my journal is friends only, and i dont update a whole lot, but ill add you if youd like.

bella_rivolta April 26 2006, 16:30:02 UTC

yes. :)

that is what this whole process has been like for me, too. realizing that, as my therapist said, i didn't invent this. so many people are in this place. i just wish i could get to them all, just to say that we're here. and we get it.

and have i mentioned that i quite like your icon? that looks like something i need to do very soon...

To begin with... be4u April 26 2006, 18:38:29 UTC

These feelings do NOT make you a freak. In fact, you'd be surprised how very common they are, and how many other women (and men) feel this way! I've been in a 12 step program (Al-Anon) for 16 years, and it's very common to be "semi-adopted" by serogate moms, dads, and parents, because most if not all of us come from suck fucked up families, yet that need to be nurtured and loved never goes away. In fact, the healthier we get, the more pronounced that void becomes ( ... )

levi April 28 2006, 01:50:19 UTC

You can add me if you want, although I'm not terribly interesting.