Saturday Kevin found out we go the house...3 weeks and we can move in... woo hoo! I should be packing but I can't seem to get motivated. Or it could be that I am busy, busy, busy
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Aaron's going to have his own room too...he's already claimed the garage, along with the room in the basement to do what he wants with it. I think guys just might want a space that they can go to and relax, put some of their stuff and not feel like they're going to be hassled about what they do with it. Also, even if he wants his own space, that's not so unusual. I belong to that ask me anything community and there were lots of suggestions for having seperate bedrooms until the adjustment period is over. (P.S. Aaron tells his parents that he sleeps on the couch. haha. Could having his own room have something to do with the way that his parents would look at him living with someone else
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When I first moved in with my now wife, she wanted her own room, a place to escape me! The “pit” was born, over the next few years the pit was her space, seldom used as a real space but an emotional room that was always there. Then the kids came alone and the pit became a bed room and is long gone.
We now have a new house, and plan to move around Sep-07. In the new house there will be a “sea” room, my room, not surer where it will be yet, but I am looking for the space. I do not think its odd, but I would just like somewhere that I do not need to ask if I can do something in, or overly consider others before making changes. Well we will see, but I would not get worried, it’s going to be a big adjustment for all three of you, starting with some space sounds like a good plan (its easily to give back later, but a lot more painful to ask for later). I know I would be nervous if in was moving in, however the excitement would be a greater feeling.
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That little bit of "self-space" can be really good for balancing you guys as a couple.
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how'd last night turn out for you?
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Last night was lots of blowing stuff up and drinking margeritas.
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We now have a new house, and plan to move around Sep-07. In the new house there will be a “sea” room, my room, not surer where it will be yet, but I am looking for the space. I do not think its odd, but I would just like somewhere that I do not need to ask if I can do something in, or overly consider others before making changes. Well we will see, but I would not get worried, it’s going to be a big adjustment for all three of you, starting with some space sounds like a good plan (its easily to give back later, but a lot more painful to ask for later). I know I would be nervous if in was moving in, however the excitement would be a greater feeling.
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