Michelle, Life is crazy. You seem like the nicest most considerate girl. Really. If I were in a similar situation, all I'd be concerned about would be my own feelings. I doubt that it's very pleasant to go through this sort of thing.
I tend to have no sympathy for the "other woman" that you are wondering if you are. But, I don't think it's fair to call you that at all. Is Damian dating another girl or is he just interested in her? Either way, you did not know that beforehand. There's no way anyone could blame you. It does not make you promiscuous to have sex with an exboyfriend that you are still in love with.
I hope all of this works itself out for you. Oh, and I was also encouraged by a friend who is really into working out to focus on cardio for toning up my body, so it looks like we both were given the same advice.
Oh that is so much - so all i wanna say is - dont let any kind of bad feeling like guilt overwhelm u. Never.
Love does not go along with guilt. And kissing Matt was nothing bad, nothing promising to him or u... so take it more easy pls.
U will leave soon now - so look forward to it. Concentrate on it. That time abroad can be good regarding Damian. You two either realise how much u mean to each other - or u and he will go on with each others life.
So look forward to that time in Canada - it will be so exciting, so demanding... and i envy u for that. Being abroad is great. I spend a year in england and france - and it was one of my best years ever.
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Life is crazy. You seem like the nicest most considerate girl. Really. If I were in a similar situation, all I'd be concerned about would be my own feelings. I doubt that it's very pleasant to go through this sort of thing.
I tend to have no sympathy for the "other woman" that you are wondering if you are. But, I don't think it's fair to call you that at all. Is Damian dating another girl or is he just interested in her? Either way, you did not know that beforehand. There's no way anyone could blame you. It does not make you promiscuous to have sex with an exboyfriend that you are still in love with.
I hope all of this works itself out for you. Oh, and I was also encouraged by a friend who is really into working out to focus on cardio for toning up my body, so it looks like we both were given the same advice.
♥Kristin
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Love does not go along with guilt. And kissing Matt was nothing bad, nothing promising to him or u... so take it more easy pls.
U will leave soon now - so look forward to it. Concentrate on it. That time abroad can be good regarding Damian. You two either realise how much u mean to each other - or u and he will go on with each others life.
So look forward to that time in Canada - it will be so exciting, so demanding... and i envy u for that. Being abroad is great. I spend a year in england and france - and it was one of my best years ever.
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