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[septembernc]

"Any newcomer, if they want to become part of the group, [will] need to walk softly," she says. "There has to be an element of ... conflict, there has to be an element of trust before you can actually get into a healthy conflict situation. ... That's where the walking a little bit softly, being a little bit empathetic, not simply forcing your ideas

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[feyrieprincess]

THIS!
only in bdsm context

[sharon_masters]

Unfortunately, what happens is the group leaders usually feel threatened by the new guys and they squash them like bugs and make sure they have the worst jobs for the next 20 years.
Being different might mean seeing things differently and coming up with new solutions, or just keeping a group meeting on track, but it also is the sign of the outcast and the social shit disturber....

Oh? do i sound like i have some experience at this???

LOL..... (slinks away)...