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[seraph_blade]

ok so i wasn't gonna do this cuz i don't be up in anyways grill or nothing. lol. but every time i thought about it i just got pissed. so fuck it, here i am back after i don't know how fucking long. but i thought i'd better take it out here than on my family or one of my girls. so here it goes.   in the last few weeks of my relationship with my ex,

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[1nfernalmachine]

Okay, I figure you at least deserve a response and an explanation. The fact, pure and simple, is that you changed. I don't know you anymore, and what I do know, I don't like. I know what you're thinking - that all I ever heard about you was from Ingrid and therefore one sided. But that's not it. I was there, I saw, I heard. You stopped listening to my advice unless it was what you wanted to hear, you never called or texted me (even when I wrote first), and you turned away from me in times of me. You wanna talk about loyalty? You lost respect for me once I started taking a more objective stance when you'd come to me with relationship problems. You'll probably deny it, but I felt that loss of respect in how you talked to me, and most importantly, how you didn't. And as far as what you've done for me throughout the years - well, I think it's sad that you have to bring it up as if I owe you for something. I appreciate everything you did for me, and I loved you for it, but that doesn't mean I have to continue to do so,

[seraph_blade]

ppl change constantly. if i have changed you wouldn't know how i've changed because you haven't had the oppurtunity to get to know the new me. and that's not your fault it's hers. but if you can't handle the fact that i've changed, if in fact i have changed, then you weren't really a friend to begin with.

[eneella]

I had a controlling boyfriend once...didn't let me talk to any of my friends for more than a second, or else I didn't love him. I doubt it was as extreme, (it doesn't sound like it was) but I can at least sort of understand, and if you wanna talk, I'll listen.

[eneella]

That's not in reference to Serj...just wanted to clarify, lol

[1nfernalmachine]

It's really fucking unfair to compare Ingrid to a boyfriend who was a jerk to you in the 8th grade. You have no idea what Ingrid was like, and it's insulting and hurtful to her, and to myself, that she be called abusive. I don't mean that you shouldn't be supportive to a friend of yours, but try not to publicly demean the other person involved when you do it.

[seraph_blade]

no one but you said the word abusive. ingrid was a jerk to me in many ways, and since i've now started talking to other friends who knew me before i started dating her i've realized that i was one of the few that just didn't really see it till recently. now i haven't said one lie about her or about what she did so before you feel the need to defend take a step back to see if there is anything to defend. yes ingrid is a nice girl and can be a very caring friend. but this is what she did when we were together, or at least some of it. i think she's dealing with that fact so maybe you should to. i'm not trying to publicly demean her, i'm just putting down my thoughts on what happened. i haven't called her any names. she's the one that wrote that i'm worse than the fucking fag who tried to kill her.