I have to give it my all because if I don't, I will wonder, I will always wonder. In the end, it will be ok. No, in the end, it will be amazing and more than I could ever have dreamed.
Book recommendation: "The Paradox Of Choice" by Barry Schwartz. He talks extensively about 'I will always wonder' and how exactly that affects both your decision-making process and your post-decision-making emotional state. To sum up: you will always wonder, no matter *what* you choose. Moreover, you will always wonder about *every* choice you didn't choose, as well as about the one you did. He then goes on to make some suggestions about how to cope with, and eventually avoid, this sort of buyer's remorse. I recommend it to everyone: I'm not picking on you. But when you say something like that, I take it as a clear invitation to recommend it specifically to you.
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He then goes on to make some suggestions about how to cope with, and eventually avoid, this sort of buyer's remorse.
I recommend it to everyone: I'm not picking on you. But when you say something like that, I take it as a clear invitation to recommend it specifically to you.
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