Okay: There's a comment for everyone on my friend's list. Guess which one is yours. (tell me when you guess whether you want me to keep giving you hints until you get or tell me which one yours is
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Re: How about....?settingshadowJuly 23 2004, 13:02:48 UTC
no, no, no, no & no. (for the record, I didn't realize you had the impression I hated you, although I think I can see from where you're coming. I don't remember how I started reading your lj, so I can't remember if you were originally a friend-of-a-friend, but I liked you before I started liking any of the people with whom you associate. Because Becca was being mean and wouldn't be friends with me. :-P. and the others, well, maybe, but not you.)
Re: How about....?settingshadowJuly 23 2004, 16:02:13 UTC
(I actually really liked you whenever we actually talked when Ashley and I were living together, but I was irritated at the general concept of you, because I'm awful to live with and you were just One Of Those People Who Keep Coming In To My Room, Darnit. But it wasn't a personal thing.)
If this isn't me, I'm going to feel like a pompous idiot, but it seems to be the only one that fits. Am I right?
You: There hasn't been a day since we became friends, even in the loosest sense of the term that I haven't thought about you. Sometimes I think that everything that happened, weal and woe, happened to make me become friends with you, and therefore I don't regret it. I would have endured ten times worse for the privledge of calling you my friend.
I honestly don't think any of those apply to me, but as I'm still on your friends list, one must. I've narrowed it down to the forgiveness ones, I think, but unless Im headed towards a bad situation I can't see, then I'm still lost. Sorry, Becca. I'm still too dense to figure this out without a hint.
One of them does apply to you, at least from my perspective. And I don't think you're headed towards a bad situation (that one doesn't refer to you on so many levels.)
It's not so much a forgiveness one (any variation on the word "forgive" is not in there.
I have a hard time beleiving its one of these, and I feel unaccountably arrogant guessing these, but like I said, me=clueless.
You: are easily the most nurturing person I've ever met. You're always ready to do a favour for anyone, at any time, regardless of whether you think that person likes you or will reciprocate. It's quite respectable.
You: I should give you the credit you deserve more frequently. You'll drop everything to help a friend, no matter how things might be for you. Equally importantly, you realise there's no shame in asking for support and you do so without hesitation.
You: Seem to have a genuine desire to be friends with everyone you meet. It's cool.
You: I've decided I was probably your pet freshman. I had a really bad case of hero-worship with respect to you. I think I probably still do. It made me happy for a week when you referred to yourself as my friend. I'm such a geek. I'll still be in awe of you anyway, but I think that awe might finally be giving way to genuine friendship.
I have to go with this one, though I would never consider you a pet anything, as you were so much so my successor, but it really seems arrogant to pick one that includes awe towards me.
Yes. (Somehow everyone seems to be feeling arrogant in order to guess correctly)
By the way, that was possibly unfair -- Pet Freshman is an "in term", that I don't think I use very frequently outside of real life -- it generally means someone who uses you as an example of whom they want to be as a college student, but isn't necessarily close friends with that person to begin with (that's why I wasn't cazort 's -- dating him so early in my freshman career disqualifies him.)
I'm pretty certain if I was anyone's, it was yours.
this is the only one that seems to remotely apply to me, unless you forgot to put me in entirelysunsetscreamerJuly 23 2004, 16:25:38 UTC
You: I don't think I've mentioned how jealous I am of your ability to always say exactly what you think. even if you might hurt someone, you realize the importance of openess and honesty. I respect that a lot.
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(for the record, I didn't realize you had the impression I hated you, although I think I can see from where you're coming. I don't remember how I started reading your lj, so I can't remember if you were originally a friend-of-a-friend, but I liked you before I started liking any of the people with whom you associate. Because Becca was being mean and wouldn't be friends with me. :-P. and the others, well, maybe, but not you.)
It's not a qualified statement.
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You: There hasn't been a day since we became friends, even in the loosest sense of the term that I haven't thought about you. Sometimes I think that everything that happened, weal and woe, happened to make me become friends with you, and therefore I don't regret it. I would have endured ten times worse for the privledge of calling you my friend.
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And of course, k'chera, you are.
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And I don't think you're headed towards a bad situation (that one doesn't refer to you on so many levels.)
It's not so much a forgiveness one (any variation on the word "forgive" is not in there.
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You: are easily the most nurturing person I've ever met. You're always ready to do a favour for anyone, at any time, regardless of whether you think that person likes you or will reciprocate. It's quite respectable.
You: I should give you the credit you deserve more frequently. You'll drop everything to help a friend, no matter how things might be for you. Equally importantly, you realise there's no shame in asking for support and you do so without hesitation.
You: Seem to have a genuine desire to be friends with everyone you meet. It's cool.
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I have to go with this one, though I would never consider you a pet anything, as you were so much so my successor, but it really seems arrogant to pick one that includes awe towards me.
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By the way, that was possibly unfair -- Pet Freshman is an "in term", that I don't think I use very frequently outside of real life -- it generally means someone who uses you as an example of whom they want to be as a college student, but isn't necessarily close friends with that person to begin with (that's why I wasn't cazort
's -- dating him so early in my freshman career disqualifies him.)
I'm pretty certain if I was anyone's, it was yours.
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I hope some of that modelling after worked out for you.
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You: Let's start our friendship off on the right foot. I hold no preconceptions.
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(Funny, isn't it, how many people have guessed that; I guess I just am friends with a lot of blunt people.)
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