::curious::

[sexcrave714]

so theres this guy, right. you've known him for aobut two months. he tells you he really likes you, and his friends say he wont stop talking about you. he even calls you his "girlfriend". you dont really care, its all in good fun

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[shyplayboybunni]

Whoa that situation was like mine it's scary!! He never called me back for like a month then BAM outta nowhere he shows up at my house and it's like nothing has happened. I mean I love him to death so it's kinda hard not to wanna take him back.

I wouldn't worry yourself cuz he might just be a "guy" and won't be calling you cuz he figures in his mind that you should be the one to call. Men....go figure!!

[sexcrave714]

damn...yea so now im gonna freak out wondering if hes gonna call or not...

[thedarkspirit]

Ok, I've never done that to a person. I try to keep in contact with everyone i meet and call "friend". Be it through IM, email, phone, or seeing them at the club. If I mess around with them and not call them, I didn't get to know them in the first place.

I understand your concern, and MAYBE something has happened, BUT.....
I am a person to where if I want to be found I will let myself be found. I don't equate that to everyone, but I'm sure that if he is ok, that he would at least contact his parents.

Just My 2 Cents.

[sexcrave714]

thank you dear...my friend josh told me almost the exact same thing...though josh used to run away fo weeks at a time and never call...but he was always fine. again, thank you

[thedarkspirit]

You are very welcome. If he wants to contact you, he will. You have done all you can. You have a life to live. My final advice in this is go live it.

[nice_n_naughty]

I'm in agreement with what thedarkspirit said. You've done all you can so try not to dwell on what's happened and go out there and have fun. If he wants to call you he will and if and when he does, a suggestion is not to make yourself too available to him. If he is just 'being a guy' he needs to realise he can't treat you this way and get away with it.

[thedarkspirit]

I couldn't have put it better myself.

[sexcrave714]

aww you guys are great!

if he does call (and its not just a message like the one i recieved earlier in the week) i figure i shouldnt/wont make myself avaliable to him

[hawk_by_choice]

Good morning. To me it sounds like he is a player, wanting to keep you on hold until it serves his needs to spend some time with you. If you are cool with this have some fun just don't sit by the phone waiting for him to call.

It could also be that he is put off by how far things went that time and may be worried about getting in too deep, you know guys and their commitment issues. If that is the case he may be ditching you on purpose as you "scare" him a little, or more specifically, your relationship with him scares him a little.

Either way, you can do little until he shows back up in your life. Friends and family might be lying for him but if he is not showing up for WORK then you might get worried, if you know where he works that is.

Wish you had told me you were visiting NC. I am nearby and often in that State. Which part were/are you visiting?

Hawk

[sexcrave714]

i was in Hatteras...

he has been going to work, a friend woks closely with his business and is usually on the phone with him.

she did say that he was a player, but it didnt really matter one way or another to me, at that time.

i did talk to one of his roomies who told me "yea he has serious commitment issues" (aobut 6 months ago he boke up with his girlfroend of 3 years ecause she started talking about mariage) oh well, if he calls, he calls, if not i guess i have no wories, eh?

[hawk_by_choice]

Just don't count on him and it sounds like you can assume he is being casual about this so give some of that back to him as well..> make him wait some.

Hawk