OMG! That is amazing that you can say those things. I am in the same perdicament with a friend of mine and for me instead of saying things to them anymore all I can do is say nothing because they'll just make excuses for their ass of a boyfriend. Now they're broken up and they are STILL hanging around eachother. I guess she feels she owes him something. Guilt for getting rid of such a dork.
Possesive people can lick my arsehole. It's a good thing you aren't being possesive with Carly and letting her go until she sees what her true friends can. Sometimes love is blinding, if you can even call it that! :)
Don't ever change my sexy pink thing! I already admire your strength! I'm glad we became friends.
yeah, i feel really bad, i love carly, she is one of my best friends, but i have told her over and over again, that freddy is no good, he treats her horribley and she is upset more than she is happy when it comes to him, i hate to see her like that, me and freddy just had an argument, and i am just tired of it. he is never going to change, but she is convinced that he will if they fight enough. they have broken up more times than months that have been together, its just the most rediculous relationship ever, i will give it to her that the boi is good looking, but other than that hes got nothing, she just likes the status she gets with him it seems, in pictures they look amazing together, then... you look at their relationship and you realize they are just together for looks. i hate that. there are so many better guys in this world, so many better guys for her, and so many other guys that would appreciate her and treat her the way that she should be treated, but she doesn;t see that
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Hehe, it's ok that you rant. In fact when people feel they can do it spontaniously regardless of anyone else I love it all the more! :)
I really am not sure if by posting this she will understand quite yet just how lethal it really is and I'm sure she'll continue to stay involved for the next little while. The friend I was talking about earlier has a really good heart and knows there are reasons for her boyfriends shitty behavior. Eventually, like I said, they broke up...this might just be the case with your friend too.
I hope that whatever happens in the end you have your friend and the asshole boyfriend ends up growing up.
Kristin, I deleated the comments because I didn't want you guys to continue fighting so I thought that by doing that it would stop. I don't want u to be mad at me because of your hate for him. I won't mention him to you again I promise.
honestly carly.. its more than you just mentioning him. yeah i hate him, but i more hate the way he treats you, and the way that you deal with it, and think that you can change it. i know that you love him, but you know what... "its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" and all those other cliches i dunno carly, i think a lot of people would agree with me... there are a million better people in this world. and you know that. people more reliable, more responsible, and more appreciative of you.
Claudia, if that's the way she chooses to live her life than fine, let it be, unless it is directly interfering w/ you, than I don't see the problem. I don't think it's fair to leave her like this, your her friend and friends are there for each other no matter what, not just when they choose to be. Just b/c you don't like him or their relationship should have no bearing on your life or your relationship w/ her, unless she decides to dick you over for him or something that's not important, than she is not really your friend or if he starts shit w/ you, but my advice is that you just focus on your relationship w/ Carly and not Carly's relationship w/ other people, unless she's fucking your man...again, of course, than I advise that you guys jello-wrestle naked in my front yard w/ me being the prize to the winner AND loser.
there were a lot of determining factors to that entry, i didn't just randomly decide that... long story and lol i dunno about the jello wrestling... hornball
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Possesive people can lick my arsehole. It's a good thing you aren't being possesive with Carly and letting her go until she sees what her true friends can. Sometimes love is blinding, if you can even call it that! :)
Don't ever change my sexy pink thing! I already admire your strength! I'm glad we became friends.
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I really am not sure if by posting this she will understand quite yet just how lethal it really is and I'm sure she'll continue to stay involved for the next little while. The friend I was talking about earlier has a really good heart and knows there are reasons for her boyfriends shitty behavior. Eventually, like I said, they broke up...this might just be the case with your friend too.
I hope that whatever happens in the end you have your friend and the asshole boyfriend ends up growing up.
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I deleated the comments because I didn't want you guys to continue fighting so I thought that by doing that it would stop. I don't want u to be mad at me because of your hate for him. I won't mention him to you again I promise.
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"its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" and all those other cliches
i dunno carly, i think a lot of people would agree with me... there are a million better people in this world. and you know that. people more reliable, more responsible, and more appreciative of you.
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and lol i dunno about the jello wrestling... hornball
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