LOGAN IS DRIVING ME CRAZY AND I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE!

[sexylildevil13]

HEY GUYS!!! SORRY IT'S BEEN A WHILE... MY NEW JOB KEEPS ME INCREDIBLY BUSY!!! AND TO ALL OF YOU (U KNOW WHO U ARE) WHO THINK I HAVE BEEN IGNORING THEM AND FEELING LIKE I'M NOT AROUND..... I'M SORRY!!! I NEVER EXPECTED TO BE SOO BUSY, AND WHEN I GET HOME IT IS ONE HEADACHE AFTER ANOTHER WITH LOGAN!!! HE HAS BEEN SO MONSTEROUS LATELY....HE STICKS

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[jdalycitym]

So with Logan, when he tells you these things, do you get hurt and show him that your hurting? Cause then in his mindframe he might think that its ok. He may also be angry himself about something and thats just how he is expressing it. Dont let it stress you out, just let him know that when he is bad, that its ok to hate you when he does, but he still has to take his little grown ass to bed, period. I bet you he will stop that shit once he sees that your not getting all emotional about it in his face. He sounds just like his father in someways and I dont even know him. Am I right? Just a guess, cause he sure in the hell isnt getting it from you or Chris. Take a night out with Chris, you two deserve it! It will make you have a much better piece of mind eventhough its only one day! *HUS* and good luck with everything. Let me know how it goes!

[bobbi_t]

You know it might be different with your ex if you would have stayed in Texas. You blame him for not coming to get Logan more but it's not like you really offer to take him to see his dad..You don't have the money too right...that is also a far drive.Honey you may be stressed but it was your choice to be a mother..

[sexylildevil13]

OK I WILL ADMIT THAT HURT!!!! IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TEXAS!! I LIVED HERE WITH ADAM WHEN I HAD LOGAN!! AND HE IS THE ONE WHO IS SUPPOSED TO PAY FOR TRIPS TO SEE HIM... THAT IS COURT ORDERED!!!! HE HAS TO PAY TO COME TO SEE HIM OR HE HAS TO PAY FOR US TO FLY OR DRIVE TO SEE HIM! THAT IS WHAT THE JUDGE HAS GIVEN HIM AS AN OPTION!!! ADAM NEVER EVEN CALLS HIM TO SEE HOW HE IS DOING!! SO FUCK HIM!!! AND YES I CHOSE TO BE A MOTHER BUT EVERY MOTHER DESERVES TIME TO HER SELF!!!! IF ADAM WANTS HIM HE WOULD CALL OR WRITE!!! BUT HE JUST DOESNT CARE APPARENTLY!!!!

[bobbi_t]

I was just trying to help..You get time to yourself after he turns 18 and I told you I would babysit and you know you can trust me so why not call and ask me to babysit..You know I would..and I still will..let me know when you guys want to go out and I will come over.

[sexylildevil13]

I LOVE U GIRLY!!! I JUST FEEL LIKE UR BUSY WITH UR LIFE!!! AND I DONT WANT OT INTERUPT!! I DONT WANT U TO MISS OUT ON PLANS CAUSE U HAVE LOGAN!!! BUT IT WOULD BE NICE IF U WANT TO DO IT!!! I LOVE U !!! AND IM SORRY FOR MY ATTITUDE BUT I JSUT DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! LET ME KNOW WHEN IS GOOD FOR U AND WE WILL WORK AROUND UR SCHEDULE, I WOULD FEEL BAD IF U GAVE UP A SATURDAY OR FRIDAY FOR ME!!! BUT I WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF U TELL ME WHEN UR FREE!!! AND WE WILL GO FROM THERE!!

Try new tactics.

[blondebaby32]

The thing with Logan is you have to approach the situation in a different way. Instead of telling him you dont love him anymore, you need to tell him you will love him no matter what. If you expect to be treated like a mother, you have to act like a mother- not a big sister. If he says something hurtful to you, you need to explain to him that he hurt your feelings. Ask him if something is wrong and try to put yourself in his position. Something may be bothering him and he may be lashing out. Even though Chris is there for him, he is NOT his father, and he knows that. He knows something is missing and that may be hard for him. Just try to think about his feelings and remember that even though he is little, he has feelings too.

Re: Try new tactics.

[sexylildevil13]

I DONT ACT LIKE HIS BIG SISTER!! I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING WITH HIM! I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANY MORE.. AND YES CHRIS ISNT HIS DAD BUT HE IS THE ONLY DAD THAT LOGAN HAS... ADAM DOENT CALL OR WRITE, HE DOESNT ASK TO SEE HIM, CHRIS IS THERE FOR HIM WHEN HE CRIES AND WHEN HE SMILES, ADAM ISNT!!! LOGAN KNOWS THAT CHRIS IS GOING TO BE HIS STEP-DAD AND HE IS FINE WITH THAT FACT! I HAVE TRIED BEING GOOD COP AND BAD COP ( SO TO SPEAK) AND NOTHING IS WORKING, MAYBE I SHOULD JSUT TRY NOT GIVING A F%$& AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHAT DO U THINK ABOUT THAT

Re: Try new tactics.

[blondebaby32]

I KNOW IM NOT A MOTHER, BUT I DO HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF ONE AND I KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM. I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'VE TRIED WITH LOGAN, BUT PLAYING GAMES BACK WON'T HELP THE SITUATION ANY. I KNOW IT IS FRUSTRATING BUT YOU CAN'T GIVE UP. YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF ANOTHER PERSON'S LIFE AND HE IS DEPENDING ON YOU TO TAKE CARE OF HIM.

Re: Try new tactics.

[sexylildevil13]

WELL I DONT PLAY GAMES SO I DONT KNOW WHAT UR TALKING ABOUT...... I KNOW HOW TO BE A MOTHER, AND I UNDERSTAND THAT U TAKE CARE OF UR B-F'S CHILD BUT HOW MANY YEARS OF HIS LIFE HAVE U MISSED? I;M SORRY BUT 4 IS A HORRIBLE AGE AND I JSUT HAVE TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DEAL WITH IT, LOGAN IS WHAT I CALL :THE TRIAL CHILD" HE IS MY FIRST ONE AND I WILL MAKE MISTAKES BUT I WILL ALSO LEARN FROM THEM AND MY NEXT ONE I WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO!! IM NOT SAYING IM PERFECT OR EVEN A PERFECT MOTHER BUT I TRY MY HARDEST TO GIVRE HIM WHAT HE NEEDS!!!

[a_fallingstar_]

*passes some cookies* well, the others already said what i think about Logan and why he behaves like that so i wont babble that, again. i hope he will calm down soon. 4 is a difficult age and this might be just a phase, so hopefully you will find a way soon. *hugs*