Long story short, they are very inconsiderate and usually just assume that I will do things regardless of what's going on in my life. For example: I take time off from my real job to meet with nurse and sign piece of paper so my grandmother can have some PCA hours. Last time I was late to work because of that and also had a run in with a police officer.
sorry to hear that it was so incontinent for you. Why do they think that you can do it and someone else cannot? You have a right to say that you can't do it when you really cannot.
It is partially my fault, I need to learn to say no and mean it. I think it is because I feel like in certain situations I feel obligated to do something, like helping my grandmother. Maybe it is the way I was raised, maybe it is because I hate conflict and try to avoid it so much that I would agree to do something that I don't want rather than cause scene.....
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