All these absent elements build your comfortable defense stronger still like an emptiness...

[shadow_31]

I am so mad at my dad right now. I don't think I've ever been so upset ever before. He doesn't seem to value my relationship with Christina at all... he doesn't care if Christina dumps me as long as he can finish putting a stupid drawer together. And then he told me I'm too young for a relationship because it's not right to put somebody you care

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[sxpistols89]

Don't worry, by not acting out on them, that's showing that you are mature. And all you need to do is keep lovin your girl, and havin her love you back.

Because in today's world, that really is all you need.

[shadow_31]

Thanks, and I really appreciate your concern... :/

[springfling1026]

even though you never really believe anything i say, believe me when i say this:

parents do not understand. no matter how much they want to, no matter how much they try to, they dont. they are not teenagers anymore, and they cannot possibly understand how you are feeling. if you love that girl, which i know that you do with everything you have, nothing else should matter. who cares what your dad thinks? he'll get over it and realize hes wrong once you marry that girl, which im practically positive you will. just ignore him, dont let him get to you. dont be afriad of christina dumping you just because your dad says she will. he doenst know what she feels about you. only she does. dont doubt her,jeff.

[shadow_31]

I believe what you say. I listen to you. You are very quiet, but what you have to say is usually wise. And yes, I understand all that. Parents don't understand, and they can be wrong. But it's not about my parents. I only have to suffer living with them for 2 more years.

And I don't doubt Christina. I definitely don't doubt her. I've already put more trust in her than anybody in the world. Who I doubt is... myself...