Stolen from another persons journal....

Mar 04, 2005 15:02

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Rant and response... pobbly March 4 2005, 23:24:02 UTC
I've known Shae for a long time, and I Love her...LOVE HER! She's great, she's supportive of one of my best friends even though he's an uncommunicative schmo.. :o) but I know she's very sensitive about this issue. Having once been the extremely thin person (due to health reasons and natural metabolism) and also having a very, very, VERY, large female sibling I don't think it's got anything to do with judgement of appearance as much as it does some more psychological things ( ... )

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Re: Rant and response... shaebie March 6 2005, 07:11:21 UTC
Thank you sweetheart.. i honestly wasnt looking for praise when i sent this message i think i just felt some others should read this as well. I think everyone in the world has an issue that that are self concious about and they carry it around with them no matter where they go, and it doesnt seem to affect other people. This is an issue that so many seem to have an opinion about, and i think that is what the persons problem was when she wrote this ( ... )

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laloca March 5 2005, 04:17:18 UTC
If you don't mind my asking..why is the doc suggesting the surgery? I've recently had some issues of my own..and my doctor WON'T recommend it because he doesn't think it's safe/healthy...I'm not saying it's wrong, just curious. I do have some health issues myself.

As for being fat..well I am. Yes I have self esteem issues..but you know what..I've come along way to accepting myself..and now..while I want to improve my body for health reasons more than looks..I AM happy with how I look. THere are SO many people who LOVE the way I am...It's all about how your own personal beauty shines out. Yea that's cheesy, but. I once knew a guy who would never date a skinny girl because he didn't like how their 'hips hit him when he had sex' he made fun of them..while his gf..who was easily 500 pounds sat there. I was appalled. Here we are trying our damnedest to gain acceptance and he's doing the exact thing we are fighting against. It's rough. Be proud of you! I don't know you well..but I think you are probably beautiful in your own right!!

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shaebie March 6 2005, 07:34:11 UTC
Hi laloca ( ... )

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laloca March 6 2005, 22:44:08 UTC
All of the things you've said I've heard from my own doc. :) We are trying to determine exactly what is wrong with me..if it's PCOS or endometriosis..or what. which is why I asked you. :)

It is hard accepting yourself sometimes....but with the right encouragement it gets easier :D

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