I guess this is a good time to tell you that you don't know everything! I miss you all the time and I wish I had more friends around me like you! You are one of the coolest girlfriends I've got and I can't stand the thought of you thinking you aren't! Chin up sweetie, you've got a lot going for you. Reality is that not everyone is a social butterfly or terribly outgoing. And honestly, it's a good thing because not everyone needs to be that way. Some of the best assets you have are because you are a more introspective person. People like coming to you because you lisen well and make them feel at ease. You don't need to go out of your way and jump through hoops to get someone to be your friend. And becoming comfortable around someone is not something that can or should be forced. Developing friendships takes time so don't make some unreal expectations about how many friends you should be making everyday/week/month. Just make it work for you and embrace thet fact that friends, for you, are something you don't do the half-hearted thing
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I couldn't agree more with what Michelle said. She's got you pegged and I don't think I could put it into any better words. One of the biggest reasons that I love you so much is because I can be with you and no one else, and still have a great time. And the best thing is that we can be doing absolutely nothing and it's fun. I love you for who you are. I find that we are more alike than I realized before though, b/c all those feelings you said you had, that is EXACTLY how I always feel. So strange. I love you sooooooo much and I wish you were here with me right now. Let's give each other big hugs, I guess we'll hug ourselves for now. And give yourself a kiss, b/c I'd sure as hell kiss you!! Hehe. LOVE YOU LOVE YOU LOVE YOU!!!!
I guess we all fall into the trap of feeling the way you do. Especially when we move away and start over and try to make a whole new group of friends, when we have so many amazing ones we had to leave behind at home. The best thing I can say is that I know you. You don't make friends as quickly and easily as some people, but that's ok....because the friendships you do build last a very long time. You are the kind of person who invests her whole self in her freinds and relationships, you can only give your whole self to so many people. I think people like that are special. Who needs 100 freinds who think they are funny and a blast to go out with if you aren't sure any one of those hundred would be there for you to cry with or sit with you at the hospital or even just know what your are thinking and understand what you are going through. I'd much rather have 1 or 2 friends who know me inside and out than 50 friends who know my name and simply enjoy my company. So chin up babe...the friends you have aren't going anywhere...and we
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