We'll have been together a year by the time fall rolls around, lol. It's harder to see each other when one of us lives in upstate NY, and one of us lives in the city, so thinking of one of us moving closer is a natural idea.
And no we're not wasting any time, but that's because we're in our 30's and want to settle down and have a family together. He can make babies until he drops at 80, but I have until 35 before my eggs get fewer and fewer, and the risk for Down Syndrome, Gestational Diabetes, and Preclampsia skyrocket.
Not everyone waits forever to figure out what they want, some people know sooner than others. It depends on the couple, y'know? I told him what I want in a relationship and that if that's not his M.O. then it wouldn't work ,and he said he wants the same things I do, and that he wants them with me so, we're thinking ahead. It's practical, especially since we both want kids.
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And no we're not wasting any time, but that's because we're in our 30's and want to settle down and have a family together. He can make babies until he drops at 80, but I have until 35 before my eggs get fewer and fewer, and the risk for Down Syndrome, Gestational Diabetes, and Preclampsia skyrocket.
Not everyone waits forever to figure out what they want, some people know sooner than others. It depends on the couple, y'know? I told him what I want in a relationship and that if that's not his M.O. then it wouldn't work ,and he said he wants the same things I do, and that he wants them with me so, we're thinking ahead. It's practical, especially since we both want kids.
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