All I can say is be careful of what do you while influenced by emotions my friend, especially ones like anger and sadness because they can lead people to doing things they may regret. Try to step back and calm down, it will give you a clearer picture. I'm not saying whatever they did is right or wrong, just wait to pass judgement until you have a clear head.
Three things come to mind:
"A word once let out of the cage cannot be whistled back again." "Anger is often more hurtful than the injury that caused it." "Anger is one letter short of danger."
a rule of life: never say anything about anyone elses family. im sorry that sum1 you considered a friend talked bad about your family. ive had it done, and lost sum1 i once thought was my best friend
Shants, this is disturbing to read man. However, I think I can interpret a bit. One thing I've learned (as cliche as it may seem) is to keep your friends close, and your enemies closer. However, it's not the way it seems. Very often, by keeping those you are in conflict with close to you, you are able to work things out, and possibly even develop a most valuable friendship. This is often true because you often know your enemy more than you know even your best friends; you HAVE to. I understand that you're "rip-your-eye-out-and-skull-fuck-you-to-death" pissed, but you're bigger than that (not just metaphorically). Come on, tell me I don't piss you off all the damn time. I often drive you crazy, yet you still put up with it. A lot of people look up to you Shants, and for a good reason. I admit, my family is the most important thing to me as well. However, having a family member involved with one of my closest friends would make me unbelievably happy. Wouldn't you rather it be somebody you know like the back of your hand? I
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Where the hell has such an insightful and foreboding Doogun been all these years? You are quite analitical in your approach to the situation, and I thank you for sharing your views.
I do see the points you make in your argument, however the situation is multi-facited on each individuals personal level, in response to his/her behavioral pattern and behavioral upbringing.
I may not have been so appalled by ths event, had I been given some sort of prior knowledge.
I don't knwo what happened and i dont beleive it is my place to ask (if you wanted to tell me you would) but if you need to talk or I can be any assistance to you, just let me know.
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Three things come to mind:
"A word once let out of the cage cannot be whistled back again."
"Anger is often more hurtful than the injury that caused it."
"Anger is one letter short of danger."
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"Every minute wasted in Anger, is 60 seconds of happiness lost."
"Let not the sun go down upon your wrath" - Bible
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I do see the points you make in your argument, however the situation is multi-facited on each individuals personal level, in response to his/her behavioral pattern and behavioral upbringing.
I may not have been so appalled by ths event, had I been given some sort of prior knowledge.
While Patience is a virtue, so is Honesty.
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And come visit me a work someday ;)
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