Change is in the Air

[sheepmage]

As it turns out, the past month has been just about the craziest time of my entire life. My company is finished at this point. In just a few more weeks, it'll be gone completely. And while that has been extremely taxing and challenging for me, I feel pretty good

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[pixie_of_spite]

My mantra for this mentality is "one day at a time". If I find myself distressed thinking about the relationship or dating, I just say to myself, "just one day at a time". I don't worry about the future, because there's really no need to

cerebrally, I know this. I just need to work on internalizing it. I think this has been the core failure of all my relationships and the implosion of the most recent dating attempt (one great first date, and then I got all weird :P ).

Glad to hear you're doing well, and confident.

As an aside, I have a futon to crash on in NYC so it's possible I will try to make it out there within the next year. I'll let you know if I pull this together.

And, my experiences with okcupid in this town are subpar. So, maybe you need a big enough metropolis for it to work.