...a bit more positive. But not much?

[shellebelle93]

So shit happened on Sunday that I really don’t want to discuss. I wasn’t involved except that my husband and brother were involved and pretty much…said some horrible things and hubby is pretty upset, and I’m pretty upset

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[in_the_blue]

Not a damn thing wrong with saying "hey, a little help?" Most people can't do it, but it's no failing. That's why there are counselors in the first place.

Unraveling the nonsense is always worth it, even if it only gives you little glimpses of a bigger picture.

[shellebelle93]

Thanks, G.

I'm just scared and I just need to do this thing.

[m_m_m_mother]

Good luck, I'm sure you'll do well. It's really helpful. And I know what you mean about stoic New Englanders..... I waited until it was super mega dire before I got any help myself!

[shellebelle93]

I hope so. I made the initial call today and they're gonna call me back on Monday.

I think nearly everything I've done to myself in my life stems almost completely from the New Englander mindset taken to the nth degree. It's kind of scary.