hmm...

[shes_a_poser]

You know that saying, "If you cant beat them, join them"? I've begun thinking about that. I dont know if I should stoop down to the level of an average freshman or continue on with how I am now. I want to have a steady relationship with a guy, but it's so hard to find one. Do I keep looking or do I date around? I dont know. I'm so young, so the

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[triplef]

I just wanna scream I LOVE YOU DESI! <3

[cloudago]

You know you love someone when you feel the same way you did when you first dated that person for 6 months to 3 years. That has been scientifically proven to be a hormonal trait for humans to lust for 6 months to 3 years. Which explains why, I think, I broke up with Susanna. So don't sweat it. It hurts, I know, but you can't expect to do this after every boy you date. This is just a time when you have the time to experiment with guys, poke them, and see what kind of person fits you. Don't expect a relationship where you're going to get married because it all falls out. Of course there are exceptions, and I know a couple, but my advice is, high school romance shouldn't be serious. Take it as you will with a grain of salt, but remember that you can't expect boys in high school to be all mature. This is high school, the period of raging hormones that result in stupid behavior. High school is a time you should cherish and make the most out of. I didn't and now I kick myself for it. Also remember that everything happens in cycles. If you

[shes_a_poser]

Your advice is something I need to listen to more of, because youre right... so smart! I just wish that I was able to let go more, but it's hard.

<3 aaron! and I love you, too, steffi :)

~Desiree