Whenever i claimed to myself that , say for example "I have lot of patience" or "I never get angry " or for that matter any Behavioral aspect
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"I have lot of Patience"!!!..Yes it is true literally if it comes from heart which means out of 10 contexts, more than 8 contexts are truthful to your words..Here lot is not complete!!! take literally... Yes.."We are what we think"..If you think "I do not have lot of patience" in the remaining two..then it is like "following your shadow in darkness"..hmmm being rightly self aware is what matters...
@Archana : Well written,. Good food for thought.. :) Btw, "God has always tested me on that!!" - I think all of us must have undergone this.. :) {I think its necessary too to keep a good check on each of us }
Good one shubs! But sometimes if "what i know about myself others dont know" works well in terms of weakness but not strenghts... In those cases we will have to take the extra pain of proving our strenghts to ppl who really matter! Not always our actions will speak for us!
"most of the times what we think we are , is actually what we want to be and not what we really are!" Right, mostly people tend to believe "ideal or want to be" is what they are.. self reflection required(I can say so ....easily ) Well..you can confidently say you are "self aware:. I approve ;-) But often people fail/refuse to act/correct after self reflection...In such case introspecting would be of no use... question is do you belong to such category? he he.. I hope NO..
But often people fail/refuse to act/correct after self reflection...In such case introspecting would be of no use...
Yeah behavioral changes cant be done overnight.So we cant expect the results too soon.It requires a conscious effort and we do fail a lot of times in changing.But By introspecting theres always a option open for you to change. so may not go a waste.
There is a tendency for ppl to think that as soon as u have made the self realization and u know something is wrong "you need to change from the next moment" Practically speaking its not gonna happen.
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Yes.."We are what we think"..If you think "I do not have lot of patience" in the remaining two..then it is like "following your shadow in darkness"..hmmm being rightly self aware is what matters...
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Btw, "God has always tested me on that!!" - I think all of us
must have undergone this.. :) {I think its necessary too to keep
a good check on each of us }
@Subbi : Brilliant 4 lines.. :)
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But sometimes if "what i know about myself others dont know" works well in terms of weakness but not strenghts...
In those cases we will have to take the extra pain of proving our strenghts to ppl who really matter!
Not always our actions will speak for us!
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I believe therez a constant change in our behavior always with time!!!
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yeah it changes sometimes with time and also people...
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Right, mostly people tend to believe "ideal or want to be" is what they are..
self reflection required(I can say so ....easily )
Well..you can confidently say you are "self aware:. I approve ;-)
But often people fail/refuse to act/correct after self reflection...In such case introspecting would be of no use...
question is do you belong to such category? he he.. I hope NO..
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Yeah behavioral changes cant be done overnight.So we cant expect the results too soon.It requires a conscious effort and we do fail a lot of times in changing.But By introspecting theres always a option open for you to change. so may not go a waste.
There is a tendency for ppl to think that as soon as u have made the self realization and u know something is wrong "you need to change from the next moment" Practically speaking its not gonna happen.
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if it is brings change in individual for good...nothing better than that...
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And of course, you are confused :P
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