Comments | shi_illegitima: For the stupid; repeat [note to self]

shi_illegitima

For the stupid; repeat [note to self]

Dec 16, 2005 12:32

Never ever ever EVER try to help. Mind your own fucking business. Period.

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vtgrrl December 16 2005, 12:48:21 UTC

What happened?

shi_illegitima December 16 2005, 12:52:25 UTC

Just the usual stuff. You try to help, try your best up to your best conscience and opinion and end up being the bad one. Isn't it wonderful, how it works in this world ?

vtgrrl December 16 2005, 12:54:36 UTC

No good deed goes unpunished.

*nods*

shi_illegitima December 16 2005, 12:56:59 UTC

Rofl I knew you'll know. I just find it funny that you use exactly the same phrase as we use ... no good deed goes unpunished. After translation into English, that is. Apparently, some truths are world-wide spread :D

zuleika December 16 2005, 14:20:39 UTC

Man stop being nice! its such a bitchy thing to do :P

shi_illegitima December 16 2005, 14:33:12 UTC

Yes well I sincerely hope this was hard enough a lesson for me to finally actually LEARN something from it.

booksaremyhabit December 16 2005, 17:45:56 UTC

I learned that lesson the hard way when my daughter was in Jr high....not pretty

shi_illegitima December 16 2005, 19:18:36 UTC

I had that lesson the hard way many times over but unfortunately I don't seem to learn anything of it *rolleyes* so let's hope there's still hope for me ...

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shi_illegitima December 16 2005, 21:16:24 UTC

*Nods* nothing is :)

_the_other_side December 16 2005, 21:20:21 UTC

Maybe whoever you tried to help will be grateful, one day. There are people who've tried to help me and I resented the hell out of them for it. I was sooo angry. I didn't want help. But one day I ended up being grateful.

I was even grateful that my T had committed me back in July. I hated her for it at the time. HATED her. But I later came to realize it was a good thing she did. *shrugs*

shi_illegitima December 19 2005, 12:34:19 UTC

She won't be grateful. She's a self-consumed, self-centered bitch convinced of her own truth and convinced she knows everything better about a subject she has been mildly occupied with for about 4 months, compared to me owning a parrot for almost 3 years and reading eagerly everything and anything about it, and my avian vet who's been doing his job for about 25 years, as far as I'm able to estimate.

(Edit, sorry)

I'm just horribly, inadequately angry. I should shed it as just yet another collision with human stupidity, but that is just what I am so sensitive about and can't really deal with. I'm really sorry I tried to help, and I mean REALLY sorry. I won't do such a despicable thing again.