lucifer [theme: match]
Name: Chelsea (but shorter names like Chel or Chels are fine too, or basically any name you can think of, really :3).
Age: 14. going on 15? i'll be 15 come next november /bricked
Previously Stamped As: Onew
About You:
Likes: Asian entertainment (honestly, throw me anything Japanese/Korean/Chinese/Asian in general and I'll pretty much give it a go, be it music, dramas, etc. ;w;), SHINee ♥, music, science-fiction/fantasy novels, graphics, colours, pasta. badminton, a sense of relaxation.
Dislikes: Darkness, heights, horror movies, loneliness, failure, being told to accept someone else's opinion without a chance to voice mine, people who do things simply for attention, mean people /shot. ;_______;
Hobbies: Reading, writing, listening to music, surfing the Net, badminton, playing the violin, daydreaming.
Strong points: I feel a strong sense of responsibility for people around me, be it family or friends or acquaintances. Once I tell myself I'm going to do something, I most likely will end up completing it to the best of my ability, one way or another (although sometimes it does take a while). I'm eager to learn new things when the opportunity crops up, and I'm quite competitive. I've got a really dynamic imagination. I'm pretty sociable too; I've got no problems making friends from anywhere. ♥
Weak points: With that very sense of responsibility mentioned above, I tend to worry too much about people, sometimes more than I should be. (I mean, I could cross a beggar in the street and feel like emptying my entire wallet to help the person. /is a sap) I don't get over my fears easily - in fact, I don't think I'd be able to get over them at all. This depends, but sometimes I get overly sensitive towards something someone said to me, and I'll always be wanting to give a good impression on others. At times, I don't have confidence in myself and I tend to panic easily at times like this. I think too much about a lot of things sometimes, wishing and longing for things I know I'm never going to get. I talk to people about my problems, but I normally don't let my true emotions be seen. Oh, and I'm not very athletic either. ;n;
Future goals: Honestly, I'm still not very sure what I want to be; all I feel like doing right now is living teenage life freely. (I know, determining your career choice early and working towards it is what I should be doing, but yeah.) If I had to roughly draft it out though, I'd like something to do with the arts, maybe as a singer or professional musician/orchestra member. Working behind-the-scenes on music production - maybe as a lyricist, etc. - would be nice too. Or a graphic designer? I do know though, that I want to grow up to be someone my parents can be proud of, and to contribute to fandom as much as I possibly can. :3
About Him:
So what kind of qualities do you find the most important in a partner? (Give at least three.): He must be understanding, charming and intelligent. I mean, maybe lacking a little in intelligence is fine, but I'd want someone who can match up to my mindset. The most important thing, though, is that he's loving and isn't someone that gives up easily. Being good-looking is a bonus too? :D
Why exactly are these traits so important to you?: I think it's vital to have all those qualities in a relationship. Being understanding and loving is important to build trust and a sense of wanting to be together comfortably for the rest of your life, after all, and being intelligent would probably help in careers and supporting the family.
What qualities could you do without? (Again, name three.): Showing off the skills that he has, being stuck-up and treating everyone like they're beneath him, and controlling the relationship are all turn-offs. Plus, he has to be the type that would trust me and won't get suspicious and start yelling at me if I tell him I'm going out with other male friends. :/
Do you prefer someone who is...
Shy or outgoing?: A mixture of both, I think. :) I mean, if he's too shy, then that wouldn't be ideal because I'd feel like I'm talking to a wall when he doesn't respond, but if he's too outgoing then it would make me a little awkward because I feel reserved around people like that. He has to have the right balance and has to know when to be quiet and when not to be.
Cool or dorky?: Both, again. *o* /shot If he's overly cool, he might come off as aloof and trying to maintain a non-existent image, but if he's overly dorky, he might give the impression that he's a complete idiot. :/ So I'd love a guy who has that cool look, but is actually a sweet dork at heart who can really charm. ♥
Optimistic or realistic?: I'd prefer someone optimistic. To spend your life with someone who's too realistic in the sense that he puts down everything you say isn't exactly ideal and everything. If he's optimistic, then at least I'll always know that he'll be there to reassure me and comfort me when things don't go my way. :3 (But again, the right touch of realism is important; being too optimistic and agreeing with everything I say even if it's stupid makes the relationship kind of one-sided, imo. ;o;)
Careful or carefree?: Definitely carefree! ♥ I'm a pretty laid-back person myself in the sense that I like to take everything at my own pace and just enjoy life as it is now, and having a guy who shares that same attitude would be really nice.
Confident or modest?: I prefer modest, although a little touch of confidence would be nice. He should know what he's good at and go ahead pursuing it, but not flaunt it to everyone who asks.
Mature or immature?: Definitely, definitely mature. I'd love to have someone I can talk things through with and share my emotions with, like when I'm feeling down and whatnot. Of course, being too mature until he sounds like some old lecturer isn't ideal either. >o< So someone who's mature, but can make me laugh. ;w;
High, medium, or low energy?: Medium, preferably, but high at times where we should all be happy and celebrate!
A leader or a follower?: I prefer a leader; a person who could guide me through life. I'm not that experienced in leading myself, so it'd be nice if we could both share the leader 'position' in a relationship and have this mutual communication, y'know? If only one person leads the relationship, it's like the other has to go with everything.
About You and Him:
What is the most important part of a relationship?: The most important part would be that it's not one-sided or forced. For me, it can't seem as if only one person is entirely in charge of the relationship, because then it wouldn't be fair to the other. We have to have mutual trust, tolerance, communication and understanding for the relationship to last and be fun! ♥ And of course, there must be a willingness to talk everything through and not act purely on emotions, as well as speaking honestly when discussing things related to the relationship.
It's the first date you two have. Who pays for dinner? Just him, just you, or do you split the bill?: I'd rather we split the bill, because if only one person has to foot it, then it'd be somewhat too forceful. But of course, if he insists on paying, I won't go against it. 8D /bricked
Describe the date he takes you on. Who made the first move, anyway? Him or you?: I get really, really shy when it's just me and another guy, so I don't think I'll be the one to initiate the first move. ;_____; Maybe just light touches and glances, but that's probably going to be it. It's probably something simple and romantic, not overly flamboyant or anything; he'll show up with flowers, and maybe just dinner and then a walk around town to see the night skyline and things? And then he'd walk me home, I hope~ >w< ♥ /clearly watches too many dramas
When you first tell him you love him, how do you do it? Do you just flat out say it or do you do something else?: When it comes to intimate stuff like that, I'm more the type to beat around the bush first because I wouldn't know how to phrase what I really want to say. I'll probably think of something to say first, then I might digress horribly and go off-topic before I come back to the present and really tell him. But when I feel like it, simply 'I love you's are nice too. :3
It’s his birthday. What do you do to celebrate? What sort of present do you give him?: Maybe just a one-on-one dinner, and then we do something he likes or go somewhere he likes? I mean, it's his birthday after all. I'd get him something I know he's been wanting for a really long time (if it's within my budget, of course). Or if I can't afford it, maybe I'll make him something or play him a song he likes on the violin/piano? I mean, it doesn't matter if the present isn't worth much, it's the thought and love that goes into it that counts, after all! :)
How hurt would you be if your match had to cancel a date because of work?: I'd be a little upset, but then I'd understand. It's completely reasonable to have other commitments out there in real life, and work is definitely important. It'd be unreasonable if I just get upset at him over something like that. He can't cancel on me too often though, then I'd start to get a little suspicious and hurt. ;_____;
What are your opinions on marriage? Is it important to you or can you do without?: I get it that marriage is an important and great step in life, but I don't think I'll be ready for that anytime soon. Marriage comes hand-in-hand with commitment and dedication to the family that we're going to build, and I don't think I'm ready for that responsibility yet. My options are definitely open though, and marriage will come when the time is right. ♥
And finally, link to three applications you have recently voted on: please, don't go
the last one isn't a match theme application, since there are only two unstamped applications for this theme at the moment. :/ i hope that's okay?
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Thank you for taking the time to vote! :3 ♥
Age: 14. going on 15? i'll be 15 come next november /bricked
Previously Stamped As: Onew
About You:
Likes: Asian entertainment (honestly, throw me anything Japanese/Korean/Chinese/Asian in general and I'll pretty much give it a go, be it music, dramas, etc. ;w;), SHINee ♥, music, science-fiction/fantasy novels, graphics, colours, pasta. badminton, a sense of relaxation.
Dislikes: Darkness, heights, horror movies, loneliness, failure, being told to accept someone else's opinion without a chance to voice mine, people who do things simply for attention, mean people /shot. ;_______;
Hobbies: Reading, writing, listening to music, surfing the Net, badminton, playing the violin, daydreaming.
Strong points: I feel a strong sense of responsibility for people around me, be it family or friends or acquaintances. Once I tell myself I'm going to do something, I most likely will end up completing it to the best of my ability, one way or another (although sometimes it does take a while). I'm eager to learn new things when the opportunity crops up, and I'm quite competitive. I've got a really dynamic imagination. I'm pretty sociable too; I've got no problems making friends from anywhere. ♥
Weak points: With that very sense of responsibility mentioned above, I tend to worry too much about people, sometimes more than I should be. (I mean, I could cross a beggar in the street and feel like emptying my entire wallet to help the person. /is a sap) I don't get over my fears easily - in fact, I don't think I'd be able to get over them at all. This depends, but sometimes I get overly sensitive towards something someone said to me, and I'll always be wanting to give a good impression on others. At times, I don't have confidence in myself and I tend to panic easily at times like this. I think too much about a lot of things sometimes, wishing and longing for things I know I'm never going to get. I talk to people about my problems, but I normally don't let my true emotions be seen. Oh, and I'm not very athletic either. ;n;
Future goals: Honestly, I'm still not very sure what I want to be; all I feel like doing right now is living teenage life freely. (I know, determining your career choice early and working towards it is what I should be doing, but yeah.) If I had to roughly draft it out though, I'd like something to do with the arts, maybe as a singer or professional musician/orchestra member. Working behind-the-scenes on music production - maybe as a lyricist, etc. - would be nice too. Or a graphic designer? I do know though, that I want to grow up to be someone my parents can be proud of, and to contribute to fandom as much as I possibly can. :3
About Him:
So what kind of qualities do you find the most important in a partner? (Give at least three.): He must be understanding, charming and intelligent. I mean, maybe lacking a little in intelligence is fine, but I'd want someone who can match up to my mindset. The most important thing, though, is that he's loving and isn't someone that gives up easily. Being good-looking is a bonus too? :D
Why exactly are these traits so important to you?: I think it's vital to have all those qualities in a relationship. Being understanding and loving is important to build trust and a sense of wanting to be together comfortably for the rest of your life, after all, and being intelligent would probably help in careers and supporting the family.
What qualities could you do without? (Again, name three.): Showing off the skills that he has, being stuck-up and treating everyone like they're beneath him, and controlling the relationship are all turn-offs. Plus, he has to be the type that would trust me and won't get suspicious and start yelling at me if I tell him I'm going out with other male friends. :/
Do you prefer someone who is...
Shy or outgoing?: A mixture of both, I think. :) I mean, if he's too shy, then that wouldn't be ideal because I'd feel like I'm talking to a wall when he doesn't respond, but if he's too outgoing then it would make me a little awkward because I feel reserved around people like that. He has to have the right balance and has to know when to be quiet and when not to be.
Cool or dorky?: Both, again. *o* /shot If he's overly cool, he might come off as aloof and trying to maintain a non-existent image, but if he's overly dorky, he might give the impression that he's a complete idiot. :/ So I'd love a guy who has that cool look, but is actually a sweet dork at heart who can really charm. ♥
Optimistic or realistic?: I'd prefer someone optimistic. To spend your life with someone who's too realistic in the sense that he puts down everything you say isn't exactly ideal and everything. If he's optimistic, then at least I'll always know that he'll be there to reassure me and comfort me when things don't go my way. :3 (But again, the right touch of realism is important; being too optimistic and agreeing with everything I say even if it's stupid makes the relationship kind of one-sided, imo. ;o;)
Careful or carefree?: Definitely carefree! ♥ I'm a pretty laid-back person myself in the sense that I like to take everything at my own pace and just enjoy life as it is now, and having a guy who shares that same attitude would be really nice.
Confident or modest?: I prefer modest, although a little touch of confidence would be nice. He should know what he's good at and go ahead pursuing it, but not flaunt it to everyone who asks.
Mature or immature?: Definitely, definitely mature. I'd love to have someone I can talk things through with and share my emotions with, like when I'm feeling down and whatnot. Of course, being too mature until he sounds like some old lecturer isn't ideal either. >o< So someone who's mature, but can make me laugh. ;w;
High, medium, or low energy?: Medium, preferably, but high at times where we should all be happy and celebrate!
A leader or a follower?: I prefer a leader; a person who could guide me through life. I'm not that experienced in leading myself, so it'd be nice if we could both share the leader 'position' in a relationship and have this mutual communication, y'know? If only one person leads the relationship, it's like the other has to go with everything.
About You and Him:
What is the most important part of a relationship?: The most important part would be that it's not one-sided or forced. For me, it can't seem as if only one person is entirely in charge of the relationship, because then it wouldn't be fair to the other. We have to have mutual trust, tolerance, communication and understanding for the relationship to last and be fun! ♥ And of course, there must be a willingness to talk everything through and not act purely on emotions, as well as speaking honestly when discussing things related to the relationship.
It's the first date you two have. Who pays for dinner? Just him, just you, or do you split the bill?: I'd rather we split the bill, because if only one person has to foot it, then it'd be somewhat too forceful. But of course, if he insists on paying, I won't go against it. 8D /bricked
Describe the date he takes you on. Who made the first move, anyway? Him or you?: I get really, really shy when it's just me and another guy, so I don't think I'll be the one to initiate the first move. ;_____; Maybe just light touches and glances, but that's probably going to be it. It's probably something simple and romantic, not overly flamboyant or anything; he'll show up with flowers, and maybe just dinner and then a walk around town to see the night skyline and things? And then he'd walk me home, I hope~ >w< ♥ /clearly watches too many dramas
When you first tell him you love him, how do you do it? Do you just flat out say it or do you do something else?: When it comes to intimate stuff like that, I'm more the type to beat around the bush first because I wouldn't know how to phrase what I really want to say. I'll probably think of something to say first, then I might digress horribly and go off-topic before I come back to the present and really tell him. But when I feel like it, simply 'I love you's are nice too. :3
It’s his birthday. What do you do to celebrate? What sort of present do you give him?: Maybe just a one-on-one dinner, and then we do something he likes or go somewhere he likes? I mean, it's his birthday after all. I'd get him something I know he's been wanting for a really long time (if it's within my budget, of course). Or if I can't afford it, maybe I'll make him something or play him a song he likes on the violin/piano? I mean, it doesn't matter if the present isn't worth much, it's the thought and love that goes into it that counts, after all! :)
How hurt would you be if your match had to cancel a date because of work?: I'd be a little upset, but then I'd understand. It's completely reasonable to have other commitments out there in real life, and work is definitely important. It'd be unreasonable if I just get upset at him over something like that. He can't cancel on me too often though, then I'd start to get a little suspicious and hurt. ;_____;
What are your opinions on marriage? Is it important to you or can you do without?: I get it that marriage is an important and great step in life, but I don't think I'll be ready for that anytime soon. Marriage comes hand-in-hand with commitment and dedication to the family that we're going to build, and I don't think I'm ready for that responsibility yet. My options are definitely open though, and marriage will come when the time is right. ♥
And finally, link to three applications you have recently voted on: please, don't go
the last one isn't a match theme application, since there are only two unstamped applications for this theme at the moment. :/ i hope that's okay?
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Thank you for taking the time to vote! :3 ♥