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[shiney_mcyoud]

so it has occurred to me that i am not coping as well as i would have liked in the absence of a certain boy. even when surrounded by a whole group of people, like at lunch today, i have never felt so incredibly lonely. does anybody else know what this feels like? i have a brick in my stomach stopping me from eating anything. its funny how 3 months

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[mac_mcguire]

You poor chicken. Well, er, not to repeat anyone, but time does really go remarkably quickly. Especially if you keep yourself busy! Like by coming with me, Jek, Sam, Ley and Louise (I think) to Ric's on Friday to see the Gin Club. You still keen? I emailed Jek and she's definitely in, and I said I'd pick her up if she wanted so if you would like a lift too just say the word.

And yes, I do know about the lonely feeling you are describing...I felt it when Tanni and Sarah left...but then all you wonderful people brought me into the fold.

The first two weeks will be the hardest

[catchnkiss]

So remember to keep people close to you and like Qualie said, keep yourself busy.
If you want to cry and tell him you miss him, then do it. Just don't spend 20 minutes on the phone crying that you miss him, as this creates massive phone bills.

You can be surrounded by heaps of people and feel really lonely. So maybe just do the small groups thing, so you can still have a one-on-one conversation and still get more personal interaction.

Whilst I was away for a month, the thing I missed most was hugs. The girls I was travelling with, weren't really huggy people and then when i got sick, I really needed a hug and they wouldn't come near me. So take all the hugs you can get. I promise to wear boys deodourant if that makes a Ley-hug more comforting.

[earthbound_tan]

Sharney my honey,

if only we were together in a gutter. i know exactly how you feel. it doesnt go quickly. maybe in thre months when he comes back it will have gone quickly but for now you are wishing every day away right???? iv planned to go and see damien in 3 weeks. what if in 3 weeks he changes his mind? something happens? i feel sick as well and everytime i forget i suddenly remember like someone punching me in the stomach. i know 3 weeks isnt three months, but when it comes down to it 3 weeks may turn into never. joel will come home to you. i was told that this is the time we need to enjoy for ourselves and remember who we are. it sounds like bullshit... this is so fucked, we should at least have each other... if i wasnt so poor i would call you... i love you my sweet. i dont know if that is any comfort to you honey. it is hard, and anyone who says its easy has never had to do it.

Oh sharnie mcyoud......

[dancing_beast]

I have never had a boyfriend, leave the country on me, so I cannot tell you how long it will take to make you feel better.

When dean & I broke up (the first time) I felt like someone had grabbed a shovel and dug a hole in my stomach, I couldn't stop crying! I find the best thing is just to surround yourself with people who love you. ie; us:-) one of us will pick you up this evening.(either ley or myself)

Try to think of all the fun things you have to look forward to, SPLENDOUR IN THE GRASS!!!! louise's 21st, Bree's 21st, We will find a whole heap more!!!!

[goth_vegas]

when andrew went overseas we had kinda broken up, kinda not, but i had spent every day with him for 3 years and then all of a sudden he wasn't there. it was weird, i would go to call him to tell him something and then realise i couldn't and it made me sad. However... that soon passed and I realised I had a whole lotta time to spend with my friends who I had always punt second to my boyfriend. I liked it so much we broke up for good and I haven't had a boyfriend since. Take advantage of the situation and spend some time with your friends. The time will fly.

Kinda the same but not

[kiki_fit]

Hey sunshine,

I can sorta relate but not in a boyfriend way, but when tanya sarah and gemma left I cried constantly for 2 weeks (in the middle of work, in the middle of phone calls at work!) and I felt so lonely like it was just me and no one else,

but then I realised that there was this beautiful support group of wonderful girls who were there for me, you should really take advantage of them, they wil help you a million!

don't worry sunshine it sucks but you will be okay, just think of all the things you can do with him when he comes back!!!!