Well, "Why Me?" is too whiny of a subject title here. Even if it is accurate.

[shinneth]

Well, I finally finished Trifecta 16 last week. Sort of expected it would take longer than usual with the timing of Gen V and all, but overall it turned out pretty decent. Trifecta 17 should be a lot better and a lot more fun. I'll probably start on that once I'm over my hormonal woes. This one's really been dragged out this month

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this icon may be inappropriate, but I couldn't resist fandom matching!

[yo_san]

I doubt this is necessary, but in case the paranoia is getting to you, you don't have to worry about me hating or even any form of disliking you! No problems on this end. I hope things get resolved!

I need to make you a violated!Cody icon soon.

[shinneth]

Nah, you're like one of the last people I'd think would have a beef with me. You're a chill dude; that's why you're awesome in my book. XD Thanks for the support, though!

[theantitexan]

Sometimes people disagree over internet things. We definitely had ours way back when, and, well, I know I've said things I've later regretted (and some of them were about you). I think the real test is whether people can put it aside.

And if someone's gonna toss a friendship aside because they can't agree with over an internet roleplaying game, frankly, that suggests they weren't very good friends in the first place. They can, at the very least, agree to disagree!

But, people often surprise us in good ways, too, and sometimes they let old arguments go. Which will be the case here (hopefully)!

[shinneth]

It's been so long ago that I don't even remember whatever issues we've had. As long as we've known each other, I'm sure there have been incidents somewhere along the road, but we've long since reached that point of understanding. So yeah, SMI friends are pretty much exempt from my paranoia. XD

That said, I totally agree with what you're saying; especially if they don't have the balls to be direct about their issues and instead bitch anonymously so trolls can exaggerate and inflate it and spread even more lies that way. So hopefully this can be turned around eventually, as it sucks to be left in the dark.

Oh, and all my contact info is still up-to-date. Sorry my replies are super-slow lately. I've been pretty busy/moody for the past 2 weeks.

[notinmtsilver]

For what it's worth I don't have any problems with you.

...Uh. But then I guess we don't talk that much ooc, so I'm not sure how helpful that was.

Either way, we're cool.

[shinneth]

Pff, you're totally the last person I'd be worried about. Especially given that you and Ruby RPed with me very thoroughly even during my unpopular times. ♥

[notinmtsilver]

You're great to write against, and we're all here to have fun, right? ♥

[maniackatie]

You're right about it being unhealthy to keep it in. I see nothing wrong with you posting this here either.

Personally, I hate when people get upset with me yet refuse to tell me why. Their frustration usually comes out months down the line and it just turns into a explosive situation. It's just such a silly thing to let happen when the original situation could've been defused so easily. =/

I hope this all gets sorted out. If not, I think these people annoyed at you need to grow up, realize what a friend actually is, and learn the wonders of communication. :P

[shinneth]

That seems to be the case, more or less. Anons really blew an ancient non-issue out of proportion and that seemed to be the main cause of the chain reaction. It being mainly over an ancient non-issue is what confused me the most, really. It's all the more silly to be getting concerns from people who won't reveal themselves over stuff that happened a month and a half ago. So of course that makes it hard for me to address, let alone the wild accusations that went along with it.

At least one (sorta two) people had the sense to come forward, but no real solutions or attempts to make amends have been made, so now things are at a very awkward standstill, and it's frankly irritating.

[maniackatie]

Lovely. =/

I really, really wish certain people would realize that friendships are mutual. Even if they'r ready to ignore the problem, the other person involved might not be. In this case, I think both of those people need a smack upside the head. Chances are sooner or later things are gonna fall apart again, and that really sucks.