Remember how I said I was going to help my friend yiwen? I often thought of those things too, especially whether or not what I was doing was really helping or not. But then I realised that everyone else had given up on him, and that feeling of having no support is actually what makes changing yourself harder. The changes I'm noticing in him are very subtle now, but it encourages me that he is trying... I recently told him that he is too self-centred cos all his conversations revolve only around himself. And I really had no idea if he would take in anything I said, but recently he actually has been asking questions about me more (which was very shocking to me the first few times he did it heh) But helping him does get very frustrating and tricky a lot of the time =p esp when I'm being impulsive/fickle (when I wanna give up) He doesn't even actually want my help, but I think I'm gonna keep trying cos sometimes all someone needs is just one person to believe in him...
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I often thought of those things too, especially whether or not what I was doing was really helping or not.
But then I realised that everyone else had given up on him, and that feeling of having no support is actually what makes changing yourself harder.
The changes I'm noticing in him are very subtle now, but it encourages me that he is trying...
I recently told him that he is too self-centred cos all his conversations revolve only around himself. And I really had no idea if he would take in anything I said, but recently he actually has been asking questions about me more (which was very shocking to me the first few times he did it heh)
But helping him does get very frustrating and tricky a lot of the time =p esp when I'm being impulsive/fickle (when I wanna give up)
He doesn't even actually want my help, but I think I'm gonna keep trying cos sometimes all someone needs is just one person to believe in him...
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