Why does if have to be like this?

[shoegazr]

I used to be a firm anti-believer of preordination, of the belief that there is one true person out there that could make you feel something totally different than normal human contact

Comments

[mariarider]

Yeah, it sucks....I think it is better if you don't live in the same city/town as the person cause it makes it that much harder to disassociate yourself with that person. All I gotta say is this, and I know it is probably something you've heard a billion times, but it'll take time to heal. It may take a while, but eventually you'll find another gal and wonder why you were so smitten by the other one. OBviously, she will always have a place in your heart, and you will have fond memories of her and then also not-so-fond ones. Just try not to think of the not-so-fond ones and look to the good things and what you may have learned. Cause, pining over a person and kicking yourself over stuff you should have and could have done is such a waste of time. Time that could be better spent finding that "right" gal.