Comments | shortypola: Trust...does it exist?

shortypola

Trust...does it exist?

Feb 01, 2005 09:23

Do I have a trust issue? hmmm...thought crosses my mind and obviously I will answer no, but am I ignorant to the fact that I truly may? Do I overexemplify situations to the extremity which is unneccessary? Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I was in a 2 1/2 year relationship that I thought was good,no make that perfect, but come to ( Read more... )

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iceprincess1204 February 1 2005, 15:39:51 UTC

I know what you mean hun. I would trust him to a certain extent but dont forget that he very well could hurt you. It took awhile for me to trust Adam completely again but I do now. Give it time. If you need me in here.

Don't Worry anonymous February 1 2005, 16:10:58 UTC

Girl you have a reason to worry but I think it would be better to just talk to him about it instead of worrying your self sick about it. Without trust you have no relationship at all.

Re: Don't Worry iceprincess1204 February 1 2005, 18:37:45 UTC

Nicely said.

no idea what the subject is, maybe u can figure it out? roonie1985 February 1 2005, 17:34:27 UTC

hey i just want to say that i hope everything works out for u. and probably the best thing to just ask him about it. but don't worry yourself sick over it......

i know this has nothing to do with your post....don't be plotting against me on here!!! j/j btw i need some more one liners *clears his throat* yours is getting used to much *ducks* mwhaha

Thanks Ya'll! shortypola February 3 2005, 18:25:07 UTC

Thank you all for your advice....I have talked to the beloved one and he said that I have nothing to worry about. He loves me and would not cheat on me. Of course, that is what they all say, but I have decided to try and put my trust in him. We'll see where it goes!

shortypola February 4 2005, 20:15:26 UTC

No Girl would send a guy flowers if something wasn't going on.

I'am not trying to give you reasons to say, i dont trust him...but think about it, if you were sending flowers to a guy, would you send them to one you werent talking to?

True... shortypola February 5 2005, 07:14:34 UTC

That is exactly what I had thought too, but I talked to him and he said that he talked to her on the company phone, but that was about it. Regardless of what happened, we weren't together at the time, so I really can't get mad. The only way that I could get upset would be if he was still talking to her or hangin' with her, which I know that he is not. He also says that he doesn't talk to her at work any longer now that we have gotten back together. I guess that it is now a matter of trust, which I am going to have to do. Sometimes you just have to give the person the benefit of the doubt and trust them.