SO, if I have the totally wrong person a million apologies.flameonearthJuly 5 2004, 15:39:37 UTC
Are you waiting for your boyfriend to come off his mission? Mine is leaving in 3 wks and I am totally freaking out. I shouldn't have been dating him in the first place but now that I can't go into the past and make better decision for the both of us I don't know what to do. We are serious, but I honestly don't think/know I can't wait for him. I am moving 2 hrs away and am not sure if its bad to let him visit me. Please give me some advice!
Re: SO, if I have the totally wrong person a million apologies.siamese_gunJuly 5 2004, 19:38:44 UTC
i was waiting for my boyfriend on his mission but things ended up not working out. my advice is to date other people while he is away dont promise him or stay together wile he is gone. it will be easy for him to stay with you becuase he is not going to be with other girls. i would make sure that you both know that you will be seeing other people and if he gets back and you two can work things out to be together agian then do that but dont stay together becuase if you end up having to tell him when he is on his mission it is just going to cause heart ache. thats what happend to me and i wish i had done it this way instead. even though i loved him very much before he left it just wasnt enough to hold me through the two years. i mean you could be tottally different than me. but i would take a break and not stay together while he is away. it will just save both of you lots of pain. BUT while he is gone writ him lots of letters and remain friends so if he does come back and you want to be together it will all work out!!!!!
If I'm not mistaken. I've seen you, and even met you. If I'm also not mistkaen. You work at Zumiez, in Bellevue Square. You're in Mikaela's Fiend. Your obviously friends with Shane. I see you at alot of shows. (The Fall of Troy, The Format, etc.) My name is Sean. I was sitting next to the two girls at The Fall of Troy show (cd release), and Shane was sitting there, next to me and the two girls. You came over and sat with Shane, and Tim came over too. I'll try to get up enough courage to talk to you the next time I see you. Ciao.
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Mine is leaving in 3 wks and I am totally freaking out. I shouldn't have been dating him in the first place but now that I can't go into the past and make better decision for the both of us I don't know what to do. We are serious, but I honestly don't think/know I can't wait for him. I am moving 2 hrs away and am not sure if its bad to let him visit me. Please give me some advice!
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my advice is to date other people while he is away dont promise him or stay together wile he is gone. it will be easy for him to stay with you becuase he is not going to be with other girls. i would make sure that you both know that you will be seeing other people and if he gets back and you two can work things out to be together agian then do that but dont stay together becuase if you end up having to tell him when he is on his mission it is just going to cause heart ache. thats what happend to me and i wish i had done it this way instead. even though i loved him very much before he left it just wasnt enough to hold me through the two years. i mean you could be tottally different than me. but i would take a break and not stay together while he is away. it will just save both of you lots of pain. BUT while he is gone writ him lots of letters and remain friends so if he does come back and you want to be together it will all work out!!!!!
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