Attempts to console, to comfort, to soothe... are not easily conveyed in comment form. If there are words to be offered... to bestow the gift of recovery or healing in the wake of Paul's death... I know of none. In truth, there are no words that can take away from the pain and grief. There is a void that will, most definitely, never be filled. And I know that time heals nothing... know this much - you are in my thoughts and that you do have my deepest sympathy.
The numbness is part of the shock and the grief, it's not the drugs. And if you think that if you feel all the grief and horrible pain up front and just power through it, you're wrong. The grieving will last as long as it's going to last, and you can't get over it or through it before it's done with you.
So stay on the meds and hang in there. I feel like I should threaten you at this point. Uhm, hang in there or else I'll hire a clown to terrify you in your sleep.
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The numbness is part of the shock and the grief, it's not the drugs. And if you think that if you feel all the grief and horrible pain up front and just power through it, you're wrong. The grieving will last as long as it's going to last, and you can't get over it or through it before it's done with you.
So stay on the meds and hang in there. I feel like I should threaten you at this point. Uhm, hang in there or else I'll hire a clown to terrify you in your sleep.
Ahhhh, much better.
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