between the sadness and the smile lies the flicker of the fire

Jul 11, 2006 16:16

Song of the Moment: Hawthorne Heights - This is Who We Are

I think I may have talked about this before but regardless, I still don't like the fact that any friend that starts dating somebody ends up retreating into a dark cave called a relationship. I admit I do the same thing and that was a big reason for my disdain for dating as a whole. I don't ( Read more... )

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swtnsxyjill July 12 2006, 18:48:04 UTC
I am in total agreement with this post. As friends we get shoved to the side and ignored when someone has a significant other and then we are always begged back when it ends. It just doesn't seem fair to me and because of that I always swear never to be "that" kind of friend. I wish more ppl would see that too. I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees things this way.

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sweetsweetmind July 13 2006, 13:58:46 UTC
I agree to a certain extent. I happen to be someone who ditches my friends when I have a boyfriend. You ask why? It's because all my friends are D-R-A-M-A. If I'm going to have drama in my life at all, I'd rather it be my own than other people's. No, it's not fair that people stop hanging out with their friends when they find someone they like, but that's what happens. When your significant other is your best friend, who wouldn't want to be around their best friend? I'm sure you would want to be around someone who is your best friend all the time, we all have friends who we do that to. Just because someone is your boyfriend doesn't make it any different, they're the same as your friends. I've had friends who are girls that I'm around almost 24/7, but no one complains about that because she is my "friend." Everyone does it to a certain extent. Take for example someone who reschedules their entire life just for a dude, even though they have other previous engagements in their life. Just because a their "whatever" wants to see them, ( ... )

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sictodastomic July 13 2006, 14:34:12 UTC
haha well in that case then I would totally agree. My case is reffering to non highschool-like friends who are not drama and sometimes where the boyfriend/girlfriend is a total douche bag. In my circle of friends, I can safely say that 99.9 percent of the time we aren't drama and we are just plain fun. When we all hang out as a group for example, we always ask "Oh, where's so and so?" and the general response is, "Oh they are locked in the room watching TV." I will always support my friends' decisions in whatever they do, but when you are suppose to be good friends with someone even maybe even best friends with someone and you only get to see them for 5 minutes every other week, it's kind of irritating especially if you live in the same town, moreover even within the same 1 mile radius. I apologize for my spelling and gramatical errors. I just woke up.

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