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i hate feeling like some dumb boy is everything in the world to me. i hate it even more that i know he really is right now. nothing is really as important to me right now as he is. that makes me feel really weak and pathetic. I get really scared and jealous of him and other girls and where he goes and what he does. when did i become so insecure
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I'm forcing her to go out and pal around with her friends w/o me, even if she protests a bunch about it.
Because it is true, people change and drift apart and it sucks but that's how it is.
I can get insecure as well, but I deal with it by trying to realize that I have to trust her. Without trust the whole thing just crumbles around you and you can get stuck in some weird possessive relationship that is no fun.
Best thing I've found to do is just get some space of my own; friends and time killers I can do by myself. Everything is easier if you have a net to fall back on; especially if it means your whole world falls apart.
And about the odds being against you:
You can always try again.
The best part is that even if you fail time and time again, you only need to succeed once.
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Yeah, I know what you mean about having to trust or yeah you will get stuck in one of those possessive relationships... ahh I am SO scared of that!
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and yes you CAN take it back. well not necessarily take it back but just know where to find a happy medium. its okay to be all about somebody as long as you're still you when they leave. if that makes sense of course its easier said than done and we've all be there. <3thing will work out in the end.
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that's what I'm afraid of...
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