Comments | sieuesie: I feel the need for a right of reply especially as I am being named.

sieuesie

I feel the need for a right of reply especially as I am being named.

Jan 19, 2006 21:54

{Gavin-} All I can say is: If you think I say any of this to play "mind games", you're mistaken, you're not very good at handling depressed people, and you're probably not a very nice person ( Read more... )

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figg January 19 2006, 22:18:37 UTC

the first line stands on its own. it even has a guilt trip tacked onto the end.

dsky January 19 2006, 22:59:00 UTC

...

*hugs*

groolover January 19 2006, 23:02:21 UTC

*sigh*

It's 2002 all over again.

You have my sympathy. And, of course, my full support.

chewbeaker January 19 2006, 23:09:57 UTC

Geez. Yeah, I agree with figg. Guilt trip and what an insensitive thing to say as well. Just because you don't understand someone doesn't make you nasty. *hugs*

squeakyg January 20 2006, 03:07:18 UTC

I can't believe Becca, with all the trouble you've had being the victim of people who accused you emotional manipulation in a situation, that you would comment on my behaviour the same way.

You know very well what it's like to be an upset person with genuine honest feelings, and be accused of causing problems and being an emotional user.

And for everyone else in this comments section, rolling their eyes and saying it's 2002 again... do you think it helps my emotional wellbeing, to see you talk about me that way? To see people who haven't spoken to me for YEARS come along and say, "Oh yeah, that nutjob again, my sympathies that you still know him ( ... )

squeakyg January 20 2006, 03:26:52 UTC

I forgot to add:

How come people who weren't in the channel tonight, and don't have access to my post which sue is replying to, chimed in with responses?

You know you get that moment... where you get the revelation that a bunch of people you thought you got on okay with, suddenly take the chance to jump on a bandwagon of disliking you? And you realise they felt that way all along, they just needed a Spartacus situation to say it. It... really... hurts.

NO EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION - I'm just explaining my feelings!

I've always felt that most people on #thm dislike me, and I'm sure its self-fulfilling propecy that it happened. It's a complicated mess now. The more I ask for your sympathy and friendship, the more you believe I'm a cold manipulator of emotions, and my pleas for friendship look repugnant to you. Honestly don't know what to do.

pixieking January 20 2006, 03:35:30 UTC

How come people who weren't in the channel tonight, and don't have access to my post which sue is replying to, chimed in with responses?

(From the original post on this thread) "{Gavin-} ...and you're probably not a very nice person."

Dude, that comment alone is my reason for commenting; accusing ppl of being nasty is not going to get you anyway. It may just be a reaction to how you're being treated, I don't know, but even if it was, that still isn't any justification.

On another topic, I need to pop into #thm at some point. :)

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pixieking January 19 2006, 23:12:04 UTC

*hugs*

And, yeah, it's 2002 all over again. :/