It's always good to know that if you knew this would happen, you never would have done it. Well I would have. We had great times together and I learned many things from you about life and about myself. I have no regrets other than hurting you so.
It's always good to know that you had doubts about our relationship MONTHS AGO, and you didn't tell me. Instead, you let me (and yourself) think that we were okay. Which makes me mad as hell, because then this could have been prevented had we talked about this together. You know how much I love you and you know how much I care. You always told me that I was the one and that you wanted no other. The fact that most of your friends thought a break was a sure thing makes me wonder what you were telling other people, and not telling me. Well, lemme tell ya, good riddance. If you aren't going to tell me what you are feeling, then I don't need you
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We had reached a point in our relationship where we would have to pull together, work together, and love together. The fact that you took advice from a couple who has been together for only a short amount of time was no comparison to what we have. Every relationship in its first stages is new, fresh, and exciting. Of course Tara and Mitch's relationship is easy! If that is what you are looking for, then you'll be jumping boyfriends every two months. We had gotten to the point where we were going to have to work together. And you dropped the ball... Any couple that fusses and fights sometimes is a couple that communicates and each person stands their ground. Of course we had differing opinions. No relationship is going to be easy, Sandy. My nana and my grandfather never fought. And nana said that was because they didn't communicate. If our relationship was too easy, then we would've been in trouble long ago.
Good luck being an adult in a future relationship, Sandy. You are going to need it.
Stop all of this shit ed. I didn't even read through your complete comments because of how cruel they have become. I know you're mad, but I can only take so much verbal abuse. I'm not gonna be able to hold myself up much longer, and if that is your goal, then by all means, call me one more time, harass me via lj just one more time, and I'll be finished. I don't want to break down and tell you to fuck off. But these angry words of yours are becoming too much for me to deal with. And on top of that, you're just making me more sure that I don't want you anymore- because of the fact that if you ever got angry at me for something else, this is what I'd be subject to. Thank you ed, you just helped to ensure me in my decision.
If you have even the slightest bit of hope for us, you should act on it. It would be amazing. You know it would. We really were connecting, and our relationship was almost through the rough spot. You know it to be true. I love you. We wouldn't have to "make" anything work because we were already figuring things out together just a few days ago. You have always been worth it to me. Always. You know full in your heart that if I had known of your feelings earlier I would've helped you. The fact that we reached the point where we could discuss what was wrong in our relationship was a clear sign of our development as a couple. We also pointed out our needs and had come to a full realization of what needed to take place in order for us to be happy together. These doubts in a relationship are not uncommon, but you shouldn't run away from them. Instead, we should work to make each other feel secure. All those times I told you I wanted you to be the only woman in my life, I truly meant. This is the unfinished business I speak of
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Good luck being an adult in a future relationship, Sandy. You are going to need it.
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