i felt the wind blow cold on my shoulders

[silent_jupiter]

tonight's post brought to you by patty griffin

Comments

[dharma_girl]

"i've healed in so many ways. why not this way, too?"

because this way is the biggest way. what i have discovered is i have walls behind my walls and fears i had/have no knowledge of whatsoever. you just have to be patient with yourself and try to let go.

what's with the polyamorous business? i just don't get it! but i'm no good at multitasking.

would transitioning really solve the straight girl problem? i mean, don't you still need to be with someone somewhat open minded about these things?

[silent_jupiter]

she's the one multitasking, not me. i don't really care if she dates other people, especially not if i go into it knowing that's how it'll be. one of the things she said when we talked about it is that part of the reason she's poly is because she doesn't want to leave people. definitely a different perspective. i dunno that i'll date other people, but, at least i know i am free to should i meet someone i wanna date.

transitioning wouldn't solve the straight girl problem in general, no, but it would solve the problem with this particular straight girl because she is open-minded and actually very aware and knowledgeable about trans stuff, especially for a straight girl. but, you know, in general i go for girls who are open-minded. close-minded just isn't very attractive to me.

[dharma_girl]

some little part of me went "hmmm..." when i read that she doesn't want to leave people. that's an energetically thinking hmmm.

true, you do not go for closed-minded girls. this i know.

would you really marry her? that is interesting. the marrying thing has been on my mind as of late...

[silent_jupiter]

we would have to develop some sort of meaningful relationship and the feelings would have to be mutual, but as far as qualities i want in a longterm partner, yeah, she has them, down to the dark curly hair.

more please on energetically thinking hmmm

why has marrying been on your mind as of late?

email me your phone number, if you don't mind me calling sometime. i don't have it anymore.

[tsu_texans06]

and and and and and an...a..that's why you're the best. i miss our talks. let's do it soon. talk, that is.

[silent_jupiter]

sure darling, anytime, especially if you have more stories about trying to get max to puke into a bowl instead of on your carpet. i'm still giggling about that one.