washing the chalkboard

[silentscavenger]

Last night was incredible. The girl and I had about a three hour conversation and managed to make some pretty fantastic breakthroughs for the process of our relationship. And while I attribute some of our ability to mold a new form of communication to the keeping of a journal, I have to give a shout out of mad respect to the K-J Voltron for just

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[rosiexriveter]

hey! that's great! i'm glad everything is okay. james and i had to have one of those crazy long talks once, near the beginning, and since then we really haven't run into anything we couldn't handle. i'm glad you guys were able to talk things through (and mad props to you for not needing mind altering chemicals to do it; james and i had to have this sort of help...)
please let becca know that, although of course i can't speak for james, my opinions of her are in no way tainted. i saw everything that you wrote as a very normal step in a relationship, i don't think placing blame on either one of you would really be neccessary. granted, i'm totally protective of you, so if she had done something malicious i would have gotten upset. but, of course, i know that i will eventually be horribly protective of her, too. probably to the point of annoying her. i am flattered that my opinion of her means so much to her! you guys are both lovelies, and i hope you guys have a wonderful cuddle this evening!

(blush)

[silentscavenger]

The cuddling will be both abundant and spladaulizooschius

Re: (blush)

[jamesxpatience]

yeah, i didn't think anything bad of becca, and i didn't really think that you meant for it to be bad. i can empathize, however, because if kelly posted that we were having issues i might have an issue with it. ummm, i'm glad that we could inadvertently help, but i think that it was inside you already. you're a smart dude.

and i just want you to hug, and i will hug back........my arms are wide......oh poop, you're in minnesota....

love ya
congratulations