Comments | sillygrrl4u2luv: more serious matters..

sillygrrl4u2luv

more serious matters..

Mar 12, 2005 22:10

so, at first when ty and i started dating, I was okay with him and his ex talking to one another..but ever since the incident of him keeping it from me that he was hanging out with her *mind you he said it was because she was "teaching him how to drive" so he could get his license...but wait, then they went to a drive in movie?? wtf ( Read more... )

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nyx2nemesis March 13 2005, 03:50:53 UTC

You gotta talk to him about it. If it bothers you it's important. If he feels the need to not tell you than it's important. That's just my feel on it....but maybe you shouldn't listen to the girl with my track record. Anyway...things are tough enough without having stress with your lover. Get it out in the open. If it's nothing then no worries. If it's something deal with it before it becomes something larger.

sillygrrl4u2luv March 13 2005, 03:53:08 UTC

the thing with it is that, words have been spoken so many times on the issue.. and everytime i just give up and be like, okay,
I don't care, just for the sake of not feeling like I am being the jealous girlfriend.. I have never had to deal with those types of feelings before, so I don't know what to do...

what i want to know is, is this okay?

is it okay that he talks to her so much??

I don't know

nyx2nemesis March 13 2005, 03:57:23 UTC

I personally don't think that he should be talking to her so much. My best friend is one of my exs so....but I've never hidden it from anyone I've dated. I've had the discussions...answered the questions. If it bothers you so much it's RIGHT for you to ask him about it...to get some answers. You have committed to him. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW! Put yourself first in this. Don't back down. If he loves you the way you think he does than it should be something you can work through.

erm... bleh? larrythesatyr March 13 2005, 05:05:51 UTC

the thing is... and i've only seen it once so it's probably not the norm of things... when you sy something about it to him you both kind of shut down and i can feel the anger build up in the air...

odds are, you are being a bit jealous [and who wouldn't be] and he feels that you don't trust him...

it would be best for you two to clear the air on it... and not say it and then shut down... CLEAR the air and get it ALL out... you might end up in your biggest fight... but at least all the others will be nothing...

you're also reading advice from someone who has never had a successful relationship hehe so... take it how you will.

hey girl crazynluv March 13 2005, 05:25:22 UTC

it's never too soon or too late to feel something that strong in a relationship. Time is so not on your side when you're with him and sense isn't either for that matter. If it doesn't make sense then you know that you're in deep/love. I'm here for you.

Re: hey girl sillygrrl4u2luv March 16 2005, 22:36:45 UTC

*hugs*

we talked it out and everything is fine now..

I have been reading your journals lately, is everything okay with you and the new guy??

other than that though, you need to give me a call sometime mr. stranger :D

i miss the brandon :(

much love
savs

hey kangaroo_7 March 20 2005, 23:31:56 UTC

hey im sorry about everything thats happening. I dont know what exactly to say now that hasnt already been written/said, and i dont know what to write, im better at talking, but if you would like to chat with me, the doors always open.And Im glad that you got a new car! New Car Smell is GOOD!

Re: hey sillygrrl4u2luv March 23 2005, 15:47:38 UTC

haha yeah it does smell good... like that was all i did the first couple days we had the car was smell the inside...i want to get some of that spray stuff...that makes the car smell new all the time ya know?? oh well...glad you got to have a margarita last nite... :D

Re: hey kangaroo_7 March 23 2005, 17:11:06 UTC

yeah me too..margaritas are good...i heard that pep boys sells the new car smell spray...