"I'm just a girl, I rather not be"

[silvara410]

Well, I am feeling kind of sad, but I think that’s just because I am a girl. I’m getting this feeling that Dan is already losing interest in me. I don’t want to screw up because I really like him!

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[alucard971]

You'renot gonna screw anything up with Dan. It's all in your head. It's also a bad thing that it is all in your head. If you think that the relationship is going awry, then it will. Its just preternatural selection, if thats the term I'm even looking for. Don't put any thought in it whatsoever. Just think of some way to make him laugh when you feel sad. Do something fun or spontaneous that you have not done. It will not only help you, it'll help the relationship...

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[silvara410]

I did the Vanilla Ice Dance for him, he liked that. It made him giggle

[cy_tabby2]

i think it may be the whole girl thing... i get weird thoughts like "aww, what if" all the time, and the best thing to do, is try to distract myself other ways and not worry about it. realize taht its like... natural female instinct to question and worry, and take things personally (i call that natural girl tendency of sabotage "pink evil") and sometimes you dont even realize youre doing it... id say... try and keep an eye out for it, and its like a little devil on your shoulder that you can either give into, or face and be like "nooo, i know what you are, and youre stupid. and im not listening"

try not to let it worry you. unless he says or does something that is an insanely obvious sign (not something that takes reading into, i mean OBVIOUS) then there's most likely nothing to worry about... and who wouldnt love you?

*wink*
id fall madly in love with you if you did the vanilla ice dance for me *giggles*

i hope you feel better!! <3

[silvara410]

You should see my Vanilla Ice dance... it is THE FUNAY!

[mcfnord]

He's on you, cuz you're money, and you don't even see it. Money!

[silvara410]

Yeah, I'm a mad money makin machine!

i saw your post in a comunity.

[chrisie_lynn_19]

He probably isn't losing interest. sometimes its better to jsut go with the flow and when you have these thoughts do something that will distract you.
i hope its ok that i added you to my list..
-chrisie

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[silvara410]

Yeah, it's cool you added me to your list. I'll add you back!

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[silvara410]

Another thing... he saw what I said and he even told me that he wasn't. I'm just being totally difficult!

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[chrisie_lynn_19]

we all are at times..