so i wonder

[silver_platter]

i understand the important with human contact and relations.
people need people.
for fun, for love, for moral support, for guidance, for good times.
people need to interact.
that part is obvious.

but i am taken upon myself to wonder
what is the real importance in friendship.
this is coming from one who never really had a long lasting friendship.
i go in

Comments

[tleilaxu]

in the past i have also had certain "best friends" that for certain times were my MAIN friends, spend all time together then inevitably grow distant for various reasons.... now i am constantly moving onto new people because i LOVE people and want to know and interact with as many as possible. i sometimes wish i had more time for the same people, but what i tend to do is establish a good relationship and then move on... i only have so much energy and i need lotsa time for new people! at least the real friends i make this way will still be cool with me even if i only see them every few months, or even years.....

[silver_platter]

ohh tleilax i know exactly what you mean! we are so alike in many ways. hahah. but yeah mann i am the same way. and then normally i go through life and i dont really think about how it will affect the other people when i leave. it almost seems selfish to create such a great friendship and then leave them behind to experience even more people, and i will always have that love for that person, but do they know that? i mean how do they feel to be left behind? if they were anything like you and me they would be like fuck it and move on too. but some people get real hurt by it. thats why i always make it a point to tell anyone that means anything to me, exactly what they mean to me. and call em in a few months to remind them and maybe share a cup of tea. <3 much love my man.