Well it's sure been ages since I've posted to LJ now hasn't it? Apolgies in advance. It's a long one. As usual when I don't update often. Just need to get things out there
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The only time I ever really talked to your ex, she mentioned how little time she'd spent single and how she regretted jumping around so much from one relationship to another. Plus she seemed to spend a loooooot of time talking to other guys and I would have thought that bothered you. These are just my random thoughts about her.
I don't get the whole "dating but not a relationship" thing either. Just a bunch of crap. I don't want the whole "let's go on one date and then I might call you in a few days or I might never talk to you again" deal. Every time I've dated someone once it's led to a relationship. I'm pretty sure there are 2 worlds of dating out there. I had this conversation today with my friend lol. Basically there is the "dating for fun" and "dating for commitment". And I just never saw the point of dating without a commitment.
hah, I didn't even know you actually talked to Lauren before...I figure it was through Will, Nathan, or Zac. But whatev. Yeah that was the initial reason for our break up. And it didn't really bother me until the end. I've got more friends that are girls so I've never seen a problem with it except for the stunts Zac pulled one night (lots of flirting and waay too much contact than should be normal). Everyone was shocked I did absolutely nothing that night, but it was because I didn't want a scene and to ruin the party as well as part of Lauren's request. I think she was testing my jealousy that night though personally.
But that's exactly what I mean about the situation. Odd that you spoke about it the same day as this post. XD The ideas stated by a friend's comment below are a good point though and well taken. Though it's still an odd sitation to me.
oh and PS, I have only gotten through the first chapter of HP 7, I didn't bring it with me to St. Louis, so you know what I'll be doing this weekend ;)
haha yeah. I didn't really bring up the rest because it would've been a looong ass story on the phone. I knew you'd catch this and figured it was the easiest way. =P
I know it's not abnormal to be attracted to more than one person. And there are times when I have been. But my attention has always been focused one just one girl. The others were just small daydream crushes. So now with 4 girls I find myself nearly equally attracted too, it makes for mixed feelings and such.
Thanks a lot for all the advice and thoughts here. It's actually quite helpful and gives me some ideas on what I should really do for myself.
PS: Yay HP7. It's a good book! Though very crazy and the last half is just packed with action and events coming at you at once. It was a good last book in my opinion.
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I don't get the whole "dating but not a relationship" thing either. Just a bunch of crap. I don't want the whole "let's go on one date and then I might call you in a few days or I might never talk to you again" deal. Every time I've dated someone once it's led to a relationship. I'm pretty sure there are 2 worlds of dating out there. I had this conversation today with my friend lol. Basically there is the "dating for fun" and "dating for commitment". And I just never saw the point of dating without a commitment.
4 girls, you little pimp! haha. ;)
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But that's exactly what I mean about the situation. Odd that you spoke about it the same day as this post. XD The ideas stated by a friend's comment below are a good point though and well taken. Though it's still an odd sitation to me.
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:)
i miss you and i think 4.5 girls is awesome since you up your odds that way...!
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I agree and I miss you too! I called you a few days ago but I saw you away message said something about an interview. We need to talk soon!!!
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I know it's not abnormal to be attracted to more than one person. And there are times when I have been. But my attention has always been focused one just one girl. The others were just small daydream crushes. So now with 4 girls I find myself nearly equally attracted too, it makes for mixed feelings and such.
Thanks a lot for all the advice and thoughts here. It's actually quite helpful and gives me some ideas on what I should really do for myself.
PS: Yay HP7. It's a good book! Though very crazy and the last half is just packed with action and events coming at you at once. It was a good last book in my opinion.
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