is this two friends lost now?

[silverscreamer]

((I was told that holding it in is not a good idea, thus my having so quickly started complaining again after saying I was going to shut up. So here it goes again

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Being petty;

[almast]

Isn't a bad thing. I was talking to a friend over dinner about how what most people view as flaws are really our defining moments, the traits about ourselves that are most human. You've tried hard to be good friends with someone, and you felt she was your best friend. That's taken away, through no real fault of your own. It's perfectly fine to be frustrated and hurt about that.

You should be commended, though, on the lack of animosity you have in this situation. You're not angry, just hurt; the only person you seem angry at is yourself.

You are a mature person, and a valuable person to many people.

Re: Being petty;

[silverscreamer]

Thank you... and I'm glad that you felt thta this post didn't expess anger. Because not too long after I posted it and immediately gave net control to Allen, I was going over it for the hundreth time and found myself afraid that I may have sounded harsh some how. Then again, as you said it did not sound angry, my fear was probably just me being paranoid and not wanting to hurt anyone else...

And yes... it does hurt... It hurts a lot. But I'm sure that either she has her reasons or she told me during that phone conversation and I just didn't hear it...