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Aug 12, 2024 21:30

I've lost some of my hair due to anxiety (it wasn't noticeable, but LOTS was coming out when I did my hair ( Read more... )

living arrangements, life, college, 42nd birthday, university, asu local

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shanachie_quill August 13 2024, 09:31:15 UTC
Ugh that bites about the food stamps. I hate to say it, but it's getting harder and harder to qualify for things like food stamps.

I hope you are able to get the assistance you need and able to finish school.

I don't know that I learned I was the answer to life, the universe, and everything when I was 42, but I did get an awesome tattoo!

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simplyn2deep August 13 2024, 12:38:48 UTC
I can see why people would lie on their benefits applications, even the recertification applications. I remember when I was trying to get health insurance around the time Onamacare became a thing, a social worker asked if I had kids and when I said no, she laughed and was like "you should consider it". I didn't find that funny. You're really going to tell a young, single, black woman to become a statistic to get benefits? She laughed again and said she was just joking. 14 years later, I'm seeing that maybe she was right.

Before I lost my job, I planned on getting a tattoo. I had no idea what it was going to be, though...probably a small 42, but now I want to search for Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy tattoos to see what others have gotten and if it can give me some inspiration.

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shanachie_quill August 13 2024, 15:27:38 UTC
Its insane the hoops you have to jump through for help.

That's cool. I got a Marvel tattoo.

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haldoor August 13 2024, 20:01:20 UTC

It's crazy how hard things are out there. I work for the dept. in NZ that pays out benefits to the unemployed (not what I actually do but I see how much they get paid and their costs etc quite often), and while it's probably easier to get them here than in the USA, it's still tough. I wish you luck with your appeal, and with getting work that you can manage around your study. I have a student daughter and an unemployed son in their 20s, so I see how hard dealing with job hunting, studying, and the lack of money is.

I hope the hairloss doesn't get any worse, and that it gets better soon.

I'm not sure turning 42 has any answers, but the Hitchhikers Guide certainly holds a lot of truisms! It's one of my favourites, and 'Don't Panic!' is probably the best thought!

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mommy_egats August 15 2024, 13:26:28 UTC
I'm so sorry 😞

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