Running Blind

[simro]

I met a most amazing girl several months ago. At first it was just small talk, but lately I find myself falling for her. Every time we meet, I get to know a bit more about her, I'm thoroughly caught up in who she is at heart. I like getting to know people deep down, what makes them happy and sad, what brings them to the edge of tears or what lights

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Simro, I don't know you...

[anonymous]

.. But I see myself in many aspects of your posts. Emotional men tend to be too nice and needy with women. The secret is: It's not about who you are, you HAVE to adopt certain behaviors in order to get out of the victims role. Yes, they make us victims.
The secret is attraction. Men feel attraction to exciting and good-looking girls. Everyone knows that. But what most people don't know: girls feel attraction to comparable, clearly identified patterns of behavior. Best decsribed, in my opinion, by David deAngelo (Double your Dating - i know, sounds horrible, but its ingenious). If we don't adopt these traits, we are just not attractive - like a girl is not attractive when she's fat. Thats the secret we have to face. Implement attractivity in your personality, otherwise you always will be screwed - like most men are.

Re: Simro, I don't know you...

[r_lu]

I totally agree.