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[singingjoe79]

i feel like I should be getting married right now...

...just like my mom did

but I know how that would turn out...

...just how my moms marriage did (terribly)

Comments

[iceydreams]

Oh bah! Don't get married just because of a baby. It's a terrible reason! Too many people I know got married because the chick got knocked up and you know what? Pretty much all of them are as unhappy as hell.
Get married because you want to. It'll work out better that way. Plus, you don't want to make your kid go through a divorce right? Divorces suck.

[singingjoe79]

this is very true...which is why i know I shouldn't...but do you know how many people have asked me if I was getting married??? it's RIDICULOUS! but it's not that I even feel like I should be getting married to Josh...just to someone in general...it's a very strange feeling....I can't wait to go to the DR! Love you

[iceydreams]

hahah I do have some idea how many times you've been asked! Remember, I've gone through it!
I remember I hated hearing "why don't you get an abortion" the most though. People would say that to me even when I was 7 months pregnant, I was like "Um, a little too late."
Seeing your baby in your belly is going to be my early x-mas present! I'm sooooo excited too!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOU MY BABY MOMMA! ha. <3

[hillaryu2]

I dont reccomend it either--I got married two weeks ago and that overloaded me so much, I dont know if I could have handled other huge things going on--and since (in my opinion) having a baby is way huger (for chicks anyway) it'd probably be easier to keep it chill and single until things have calmed down

[singingjoe79]

well thank you. I totally agree with you too. I think that it's all the ppl asking if I'm going to get married that makes me feel like I should. But congrats on getting married and I hope you're having a blast with married life!

[dmbprep69]

You cant let what others say to you influence anything u do in your life. People will always ask the stupid questions and say the wrong things, just do what u think is right, although u might wanna be careful of those baby hormones, cuz those can also throw u in the wrong direction! LOL
Peace,
Andrew

[singingjoe79]

haha! this is VERY true...Thanks Andrew

[surferchickk55]

"Life does not put things in front of you that you are unable to handle"

I know things may seem like a lot and overwhelming right now, but you're a strong person and I know you will be fine.
- <3 Renee