Boundaries

[singingwillow22]

Since I have very strongly formed boundaries now, and I am not afraid to exert them, I figured I would post some that are hard boundaries and will see no compromise. That way you all know them ahead of time and should you step on one and I place back where you belong, you will have had warning (not meaning to sound like a bitch

Comments

[jadencraft]

How is it that you can make rules for others that you do not follow yourself? If you were to follow these rules you might not find the need to bounce from friend to friend soaking up their generosity until they are exhausted. I truly hope you learn to follow these rules for your future as well as enforcing these rules for those in your world. Those around you will follow the example you set not the rules you speak. I know this is your journal and I'm intruding here, but you need to honestly look at yourself, see where you are at in life and learn how to grow yourself before imposing rules on others that you have rarely ever followed yourself. The drama that typically encompasses you is of your own creation not something fabricated by others. If you truly want to be healthy then by the Gods grow up, accept your responsibility as an adult and live you life without being a sponge to those around you. Contribute. Try a rule like being selfless instead of self absorbed. You do have people that depend upon you and need you to be

[jadedmel102]

Well, I must say...I totally agree with Jaden. I also want to suggest that maybe next time you actually research what you say before you post it. I think you break all of your own rules. Also, to demand someone not be P.A. isn't morally right seeing as how it can be a disorder...same as bipolar, depression, etc. So it seems as if you want all the people in your life to be perfect & that isn't going to happen. Oh yeah, if you go back & research P.A. maybe you should also do some research on being self-righteous. Seems you have that one covered too.