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1. Longest relationship?
5 months.
2. Shortest relationship:
1 night (hehe).
3. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have told you they love you?
None! *sad violins play*...
4. Have you ever thought that you were going to marry the person you were dating?
No. Balderdash.
5. Have you ever liked someone so much that it hurts?
Yes. ;___;
6. Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?:
Never had one. But I may have made boys cry before.
7. Are you happier single or in a relationship?
I'm alright single, but I think I would be substantially happier with a boy. Don't know.
8. Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes.
9. What is your favorite thing about the opposite sex?
Having sex with them. Let's be honest, folks. I also really like men in sweaters and snow-hats... tehe so cute in the winter <3
10.Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes.
11. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
I think so.
12. Talk to any of your exes?
Fred sporadically texts me and calls every once in a huge while. I probably contact him even less, but when we talk it's always pleasant. I wish he'd get on IM more, because we tend to have a lot of fun sharing music and pictures on the very rare occasions that we both get on.
13. If you could go back in time would you change things to where you could still be with one of your exes?
I don't think so. I wish it could have worked out with Fred instead of being shitty, but as Chris loves to announce every time he's mentioned, "HE IS AN OLD MAN! HE IS GOING BALD!!!"
14. Do any of your exes feel the same way?
As far as I'm concerned, neither of my exes cared about people other than themselves when they were dating me. Fools.
15. Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
Never had the chance to be one, but I'd probably be alright. A bit wild at times, and perhaps hard to handle, and perhaps overwhelming when excited about something. But I'd be well-meaning, honest, playful, affectionate, loyal to the extent that he was loyal to me, and a classic Scorpio in bed. ;) I'd probably also invent foolish fun things for us to do, like cook pancake breakfasts for my house or engage our friends in a Mario Party tournament.
16. Have you dated people who were not good to you?
Story of my life!
17. Have you dated someone older then you? younger?
Older. As Anjali would say, "Anna only wants mountain men!"
18. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
No.
19. Believe in love at first sight?
No.
20. Ever dated two people at once?
Not yet? ;)
21. Do you want to get married?
Don't know.
22. Do you have something to say to any of your exes?
To #1: I have only unkind things to say, so I will hold my tongue. *zip!*
To #2: I want to know when you're going to Europe. I also need you to get on IM for once in your busy-ass life so I can send you those Absynth-minded sibgs and links to the Toledo pics. You probably won't get on because you are WORTHLESS, but you should. DO IT NOW.
23. Ever stolen some one's boyfriend or girlfriend?
No. I find this immensely disrespectful and unethical. I have no respect for people who do it or people who would allow it to be done. If your affections are wandering that much and your trust/loyalty-level is that low, end it. Or just be fuck-buddies with a clear understanding of your level of committment. But don't use people. An excessive sense of self-entitlement is a disgusting trait.
24. Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
I've found them attractive and funny before, but as soon as someone is claimed by a friend they are emotionally off limits to me. After they break up, I'm not sure. I've never liked a friend's ex.
25. Does heartbreak really feel as bad as it sounds?
Yes, it's a pretty shitty situation.
26. Are you looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Yes and no. Yes in that I do want one and make a conscious effort to go out, meet people, remain open-minded, trade phone numbers even with mildly boring people just in case they deserve a second chance, operate in a vaguely optimistic "you never know when you'll meet somebody" frame of mind, and go out in smaller groups so that boys won't be intimidated by the presence of the entire Amazon tribe of West Oakland altogether...
But no in that right now so many other things are so much more important to me. Figuring out grad schools, getting internships and jobs, keeping in touch with my family, spending lots of time with the friend... all of these things matter a lot right now. I find that I barely have time for myself, let alone for a boy or two. I do severely miss my relationship with Fred at times because I KNOW one night a week and the occasional friendly phone call would make my life much happier, and because I occasionally really wish I could go on a dinner or movie date. But you know, I'm not even pining over Fred anymore. He makes me horny and I sort of miss him, but I don't need him. I'm operating on my own right now just fine and that is somewhat reassuring. Soon I will be just as busy as he is anyway. And that also makes me feel good.
So while I would love a lad, I'm okay alone. Besides... there's always Weifei to ravage me at night. ;)