Comments | single_moms: Maybe too soon

tif_angelic in single_moms

Maybe too soon

Sep 11, 2004 21:23

Hi I'm actually not a single mom yet I have another six months, before the baby is due. But I've been up and down on the emotional roller coster since I told the father, who sent me a hanger in response. So I'm looking for a little suport, sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy, other times I'm so excited I can barely wait! So I'm just kinda looking ( Read more... )

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crazypunkgrrrrl September 11 2004, 20:45:31 UTC

I'm confused...a hanger? Anyway i went threw the same thing. The father tried to stick around but we jsut drove each other nuts and I seen his true colors. You have so many emotions cause your body is changing. It is getting ready so create the most beautiful creature you ever laid eyes on. It is probably going to get harder...but it the end you'll see it is worth it. And I actually enjoy being a single mom to the extent that I am SOLE provider of this child and what I say goes. The end. :)

hangers tif_angelic September 12 2004, 09:09:06 UTC

A hanger was one of the tools women used to abort a baby back when it was illegal to have abortions.

Re: hangers crazypunkgrrrrl September 12 2004, 09:15:32 UTC

ew ew ew....good thing your not with him anymore. Anytme you need to talk you can IM me. I'm the same name on aol. :)

vanian September 12 2004, 19:49:26 UTC

You should send him a nutcracker in return
What a pukehed
One thing to remember while youre pregnant - your emotional outlook on this situation is being felt by yur baby - especially in the final trimester
During those last 3 months i did everything i could to be happy and well adjusted - this included talking to my doctor a lot
Dont worry though - you are about to embark on the most wonderous and exhausting journey you could ever imagine
And yes - you will be tired - but you know what? You wont care when you look into that little face all puffy and cute - and you'll see yourself - not him.

stupid boys iloveanid September 14 2004, 20:56:46 UTC

Men can really be jerk-offs sometimes. When I told the father of my youngest he disappeared for 3 weeks and I just assumed it was over. Funny thing...we were trying to get pregnant...men make no sense...I definitly know how you feel. IM me anytime on yahoo at "anismygoddess". I'd be glad to listen if you need to talk.

also_valerie September 16 2004, 16:19:06 UTC

*sending lots of hugs your way*

I agree, send him a nutcracker, and be done with it. You can and will raise your baby in a loving home.

o0o_schatzi_o0o October 28 2004, 03:59:18 UTC

I would have gone Lorena Bobbit on his a**! BOTH of the aholes.. My real father was married to my mom for two years before I was concieved.. and he left.... I have never met him.. I found a letter a few years ago to my mom from him when I was five years old.. and he couldnt even remember my name.. Doesnt matter.. I have a wonderful Step Dad who came into the picture when I was still an infant.. and wouldnt want anyone else.. so everything happens for a reason.. Those men (your ex's) are obviously missing out in the most important thing they have ever done.. so its their loss :)